Thank you all for your input and encouragement. He is at a hotel for the weekend. I went out with a friend yesterday. Today I plan to do some more hiking, and tomorrow I'll go to church. I also want to talk to my elder's wife about the situation. Before any of this happened, I already had an appoint...

I did go hiking for several hours today, and the rest of the day we stayed on separate floors. We tried to talk more this evening. He has apologized and said he knows he was wrong, but I do feel like he is also trying to evade responsibility. He said I cant understand addiction, he didnt set out to ...

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I planned to go out by myself today, but most places are closed because of the holiday. We talked a little more this morning, and now I am trying to figure out where to go in order to take some space today.

I agree that it was basically taking my choice away from me. I feel stupid for trusting him and not knowing this was going on. In hind sight I should have known, because we had multiple arguments about how hard it was to wait for sex until marriage, and what I was and was not comfortable doing. He s...

Yes, we discussed bisexuality last night. I learned about the porn this morning.

While I was hurt that he hadn't been open with me sooner, his sexuality was something I could accept and enjoy getting to know more about him once I processed it. The porn addiction is a whole other thing that is a lot more concerning to me.

I am having trouble processing my feelings. I tried to be understanding and supportive. I also tried to talk more. I told him it hurt that he lied and asked if there was anything else he needed to tell me. After a few more specific questions, he admitted that he is addicted to porn and has been thro...

I have identified as a gray asexual for the past several years, because I don't experience sexual attraction very often or to very many people. My husband and I dated for 2 years and got married at the beginning of this year. I have been open with him about my asexuality from the beginning. I am a C...