Thanks, haha you totally are reading my mind and it makes sense. Never thought of it like that.

Yes they are well trimmed.
It's been better since we've been using lube.
I don't know why but I was nervous to use it but it's helped so much.

This week my boyfriend started fingering me. I've been bleeding afterwards. It was unexpected in terms of the bleeding. I've never been fingered before until now. It's happebed each time since then. Is this normal?

A counselor for one on one. Something before my psychiatrist.

Both the original and new situations.

I guess I need help finding a place near me to talk to someone about this.

A little bit yes. I have a few strategies I can use.

Thanks, I am not comfortable with sexual stuff for the next while I think.

I'm just worried and I want answers. I wish there was a way to prevent all this.

Yes, I see a Psychiatrist every two weeks.

No, protection wasn't used. (Hence why I'm freaking out)

With my ex falling asleep in my bed, I think the thing that upsets me is the fact that he said he would not fall asleep but did. I know mistakes happen but whoa.I think I am just still dealing with the shock and moral upset. I never thought that would happen to me. Just scared I guess. It was a scar...

So there's a few different issues here: - My ex boyfriend broke up with me in November 2013 (we dated for a year and a month) - 10 days into our relationship (with my ex boyfriend), he fell asleep in my bed in residence when he promised he would not fall asleep. I woke up the next morning extremely ...