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by mushroominc
Tue Dec 20, 2022 4:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 10048

Re: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries

sorry if this is a bother but what’s with the quotes around teasing at the end? is that a bad thing?

i mean ik it hurt me and he understood it. he hasn’t done that ever again.
by mushroominc
Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:51 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 10048

Re: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries

i also want to quickly mention that my current bf has made one more tiny mistake in the past but it never bothered me like this. he was teasing me and he asked if he can nibble on my neck. i said no, but he asked again like how a little kid would ask for things: “pleaasee?” again, i said no and he “...
by mushroominc
Tue Dec 20, 2022 12:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 10048

Re: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries

yes Michaela, i have talked to my bf about it. after that happened we laid in silence together but i was still registering what happened. i was okay with him holding me. i didn’t actually talk to him about it when i got home after i talked to my friends. they said to create a safe word that will alw...
by mushroominc
Tue Dec 20, 2022 10:13 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 10048

Re: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries

that makes sense. my ex boyfriend has told me it was a little mistake before but he kept doing it over and over again while putting the blame on me. at some point i remember telling him i might be asexual and he responded with “you better not be.” i think i have a fear that my current bf will make t...
by mushroominc
Tue Dec 20, 2022 9:04 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 10048

Re: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries

yes, it feels different. with my previous partner, i always felt bad if i didn’t want to make out. he kept telling me things like “but i need this” and at some point i told him i didn’t wanna make out anymore and to give me some time, but even then he was annoyingly asking me when i was ready to mak...
by mushroominc
Mon Dec 19, 2022 10:25 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries
Replies: 10
Views: 10048

my bf accidentally violated my sexual boundaries

hi, i’m currently ruminating on something my boyfriend did a couple of days ago. but before i get to that here’s a quick backstory to understand more. i had an ex boyfriend who SA’d me. he pressured me into making out w him when i didn’t want to, guilt tripping me and all that. i was with him for tw...