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by candikelp
Fri Sep 20, 2024 3:30 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?
Replies: 8
Views: 51671

Re: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?

Hi, I hope it's okay that I've come back to this discussion after a month. I've been doing a lot of thinking. Yeah, it is really tough with where I live and with my family the way they are. If they weren't the way they are, I probably would know way more about what I want actually, or at the very le...
by candikelp
Wed Aug 21, 2024 8:51 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?
Replies: 8
Views: 51671

Re: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?

That's fair that it probably means something and I'm not just completely making it up. I just worry because I can't tell and it gets confusing and hard to discern what I'm really feeling or what I really want. That and the doubts I have make me uncomfortable, and I can't tell if I really would be mo...
by candikelp
Mon Aug 19, 2024 1:53 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?
Replies: 8
Views: 51671

Re: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?

I do agree that people can explore with HRT and are within their rights to decide it's not for them without judgement! I wouldn't make fun of someone even if they did do that, so I do feel like the posts I saw about that topic were unkind about it, but when people say something like that, I start to...
by candikelp
Sat Aug 17, 2024 3:06 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?
Replies: 8
Views: 51671

guilt and confusion over identity and fearing "fetishization" - how to cope?

I've been very conflicted about all of this lately, and figured this was the best place to look for answers. I wasn't sure where to post this since it's kind of a combo of topics, so hopefully this is the right place on the boards. So, I've been questioning my gender for a while - probably back sinc...
by candikelp
Sat Jan 28, 2023 6:09 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Satisfaction and when to stop?
Replies: 1
Views: 5756

Satisfaction and when to stop?

Hi, so I’ve posted recently about some issues I was having, and while they’re still sort of present, it’s gotten better! I have ups and downs, but I think I’m managing more on that front. However, I still kind of have some issues that aren’t really related to mental health/not being able to orgasm a...
by candikelp
Mon Jan 16, 2023 11:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Horny often but sooo not sensitive
Replies: 5
Views: 13194

Re: Horny often but sooo not sensitive

are you currently in therapy or thinking about starting therapy? Unfortunately, I have a lot of reasons that make it so therapy isn’t an option right now. I’d like to look into it in the future and make at least some sort of effort towards it, but it’s not something I can do at the moment. Thank yo...
by candikelp
Sat Jan 14, 2023 7:57 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Horny often but sooo not sensitive
Replies: 5
Views: 13194

Re: Horny often but sooo not sensitive

I'm glad to hear it doesn't seem abnormal. I figured the masturbating often wasn't that weird since I'd heard of people doing it before and I know it's really not supposed to lower sensitivity, but it honestly felt like that to me. I still think multiple times a day is probably too much for me (I've...
by candikelp
Fri Jan 13, 2023 9:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Horny often but sooo not sensitive
Replies: 5
Views: 13194

Horny often but sooo not sensitive

Hi, I’m a 20 year old woman and I’ve been masturbating for the past two years. At first, I was a bit crazy over it, I’ll admit it. Multiple times a day, couldn’t get enough. And then it trickled down to once a day. But then orgasming took too long (I’m talking at least three hours) and… I wasn’t fee...