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by staplesj_
Mon Jul 17, 2023 6:35 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Is there privacy on this forum ?
Replies: 1
Views: 760

Is there privacy on this forum ?

So I have been going through a lot regarding my sexuality. There is a story I really want to share but I want to talk to someone via chat in a private forum. I dont know if it is possible to do on here, but I do want to talk to someone who Is an administrator. I'd rather it be someone who I feel com...
by staplesj_
Mon Jul 10, 2023 7:48 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: ( male ) stigma around anal and prostate stimulation
Replies: 1
Views: 7455

( male ) stigma around anal and prostate stimulation

I have been fearful about the stigma around Anal stimulation and prostate play specially with men. I have been afraid to talk about my interest of wanting to try it out. I really want to experience that. I want to ask if.. I like anal play like say a thrusting machine am I gay? I personally can't se...
by staplesj_
Sun Jul 09, 2023 8:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: male sex toys..
Replies: 4
Views: 9986

Re: male sex toys..

I know women can have multiple orgasms and that made me curious as a male if I can do the same. I wanted to have that experience and I am really eager. I am just trying to get over the homophobia and not feeling like I am a " man " for inserting something up in my anus and allowing myself ...
by staplesj_
Sun Jul 09, 2023 8:08 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: male sex toys..
Replies: 4
Views: 9986

Re: male sex toys..

Hey: ) so yea I just meant like a male having multi orgasms instead of the refractory periods. I heard anal stimulation or prostate milking is really pleasurable and I considering buying a few toys to have that experience.
by staplesj_
Sat Jul 08, 2023 6:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: male sex toys..
Replies: 4
Views: 9986

male sex toys..

So, I am wanting to try out anal play and since I am a male there is a big stigma with anything anal with men. I am really tired of your basic getting off. I wanted to experience a multi orgasmic experience as a male. I am planning on buying a few toys. One toy is a probe to get me warmed up and ano...
by staplesj_
Thu Jun 08, 2023 9:39 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: questioning my sexuality: never been in a relationship
Replies: 1
Views: 26207

questioning my sexuality: never been in a relationship

so tbh, there has been a time where I questioned my sexuality because of my lack of experience. So tbh, I’ve always felt like I’ve had to fight for attention from other women my age specially when I was younger sometimes that was my motivation as to why I joined certain things. But tbh I never reall...
by staplesj_
Mon May 15, 2023 11:30 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Is dry humping safe?
Replies: 1
Views: 9252

Is dry humping safe?

So I want to start things slow once I become sexually active. I thought about dry humping, is it safe with clothes on? Also, are there benefits with dry humping?

Just curious: )
by staplesj_
Mon May 15, 2023 11:17 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: can I use food for oral sex ?
Replies: 1
Views: 3458

can I use food for oral sex ?

say if I were going down on a girl, can I use food? Meaning like whipped cream of like honey? Would that give a bad reaction or something like that? I just want to make oral sex enjoyable not just for me but for my partner. Also, since I'm a guy when receiving should I wear a condom? to be safe. Are...
by staplesj_
Mon May 15, 2023 11:12 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re: tight balls, how often should I release ?
Replies: 1
Views: 1725

Re: tight balls, how often should I release ?

Hey, so I don't have any physical pain or anything like that nothing medical but sometimes if I go for a few days without ejaculation by balls get really tight. How often should I masturbate ? Do tight balls have anything to do with not ejaculating? Sometimes in the morning I get very aggressive mor...
by staplesj_
Sun Apr 02, 2023 7:49 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I feel that women arent attracted to me. ( Male )
Replies: 1
Views: 3307

I feel that women arent attracted to me. ( Male )

Hey so tbh, i'm starting to think that women aren't attracted to me. I'm 25 and never had a girlfriend nor done anything physically with anyone. I'm starting to think something is wrong with me. My friends and family dont think i'm unattractive but I do for some reason. Its hard for me because when ...
by staplesj_
Sun Mar 19, 2023 8:07 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Male 25 ( Never Been In a Relationship )
Replies: 1
Views: 7910

Male 25 ( Never Been In a Relationship )

Hey, so at the moment I am 25 years old. I have never been in a relationship with anyone nor done anything with anyone either. I really want to be in a relationship but I am trying to work on myself right now. I have faced a lot of rejection from women my age. And honestly, not having a lot of femal...
by staplesj_
Wed Mar 15, 2023 7:58 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual Shame and Frustration
Replies: 2
Views: 11626

Re: Sexual Shame and Frustration

I apologize : )

I'll do that.
by staplesj_
Wed Mar 15, 2023 7:06 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual Shame and Frustration
Replies: 2
Views: 11626

Sexual Shame and Frustration

I feel shame about not being sexually active but I am working through the fear of the shame of being sexually active when that happens. I'm just horny all the time and when i have a release i feel deflated. I want my sexual experience to be more than getting off or feeling horny and turned on. i'll ...
by staplesj_
Wed Mar 15, 2023 7:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )
Replies: 7
Views: 13247

Re: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )

Yea! masturbation is kind of getting boring and mundane. I have been working through shame about being sexually active. When I get off, I tend to fall asleep or I finish too soon. Getting random hard on's during the day is also frustrating. Knowing that I can't do anything at that moment except fant...
by staplesj_
Wed Mar 15, 2023 3:43 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )
Replies: 7
Views: 13247

Re: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )

That makes sense. I'm just sexually frustrated because I havent dont anything with anyone.
by staplesj_
Wed Mar 15, 2023 9:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexually Frustrated ( Virgin ) Male
Replies: 1
Views: 92969

Sexually Frustrated ( Virgin ) Male

So, I haven't had sex yet and I'm 25. I am a virgin but I don't think I can wait anymore for marriage for my first sexual encounter. It's making me sexually frustrated. I just wanna have sex honestly. I just want to be able to kiss someone or wake up with someone. It doesnt have to be PIV. I just ha...
by staplesj_
Mon Mar 13, 2023 9:51 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: (Male) How safe is oral sex?
Replies: 3
Views: 3746

Re: (Male) How safe is oral sex?

Would using a condom for oral sex make it feel less pleasureable? Or should I try something like bareskin condoms?
by staplesj_
Mon Mar 13, 2023 9:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )
Replies: 7
Views: 13247

Re: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )

That makes sense! I just want to be able to try some things out and get over fear and shame as well. I just feel like I want and need practice for the real thing. Like foreplay, and oral sex and also reciving as well. I think I just meant someone that will be patient with me and will show me the rop...
by staplesj_
Sun Mar 12, 2023 11:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: (Male) How safe is oral sex?
Replies: 3
Views: 3746

(Male) How safe is oral sex?

Hey just out of curiosity, when it comes to oral sex since I am a penis owner. Should I use a condom for oral sex? Just that fact that someone is going down on me.

Also what are the best ways to eat a girl out? Are there any good techniques?

Thanks : )
by staplesj_
Sun Mar 12, 2023 11:09 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )
Replies: 7
Views: 13247

I really want to have sex but I don't know how. ( Male 25 )

So I really want to become sexually active or explore my sexuality with a partner but I am lost and I don't know where to start. I am honestly kind of tired of masturbating I want to experience sex and a human connection with another person. I really want that. Is it bad to want to have someone to p...
by staplesj_
Sun Mar 12, 2023 9:42 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm afraid of having sex but I really want to. (Virgin)
Replies: 4
Views: 13190

Re: I'm afraid of having sex but I really want to. (Virgin)

Well I think that since I never had intercourse or sex with anyone masturbation is my only way of pleasure sometimes. When i'm done I feel deflated. I just want to have sex honestly. I hate getting off by myself sometimes because I want to know what sex or intercourse feels like. Being inside someon...
by staplesj_
Fri Mar 03, 2023 10:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: First Time Tips?
Replies: 1
Views: 2586

First Time Tips?

So I have been contemplating if or when I want to have my first time sexually with someone. I am still working through shame from religion but I think that getting over my fear and shame is actually having a sexual encounter with someone I trust. I wanted to start of with things like cuddling and ki...
by staplesj_
Fri Mar 03, 2023 10:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm afraid of having sex but I really want to. (Virgin)
Replies: 4
Views: 13190

Re: I'm afraid of having sex but I really want to. (Virgin)

Sorry for the late reply, I think that masturbation can only do so much at times. I just hate the feeling of being aroused and horny but not being able to do anything sexually except masturbation. Messaging wise, I think that not being a virgin anymore, or not being able to be someones first time. I...
by staplesj_
Sun Feb 19, 2023 6:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: how often should I masturbate?
Replies: 1
Views: 4063

how often should I masturbate?

Hey: ) so I was just curious.

How often should I masturbate say a week? I know that you shouldn't masturbate without it me overdoing it? Also, are there healthy benefits to masturbation?

Also, since i'm a guy are there different ways to masturbate ?

Thanks : )
by staplesj_
Thu Feb 16, 2023 7:48 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Sexual Shame
Replies: 1
Views: 25077

Sexual Shame

So I have been going through a rough time. I grew up in the church and often times felt shame for wanting to have sex before I got married. A part of me really wants to explore sex and physical intimacy but at times i fear my views from the church. I want to break out of this but at times i don't kn...