ive been trying to google stuff but a lot of the time that stresses me out too, kinda like what you said. i can try that exercise, although it’s tricky bc not having answers stresses me out but looking stuff up to get answers does too and idrk which one is like less bad ig

yeah i have. especially recently idk why

yeah that sounds like it’ll help a bit. although i guess the uncertainty makes things a bit worse bc i really dont wanna go to jail or prison or anything and be away from all my loved ones and stuff

i’ll do that!! the conversation with mom went ok ig. i forget what happened with the first one we had but after that i felt better after a while and now im worried again and after the second conversation im still worried. idk do you think i’ll go to jail or anything like that bc of this?

i havent. i have talked about it to my mom tho but im still worried that im gonna go to jail for this stuff. idk

hi!! no, its not really sexting. mainly just sending back and fourth sexual stuff as a joke n stuff. photos are sometimes involved but its never of any of us or anything just drawings and stuff like that for us to joke about. in terms of motivation its not anything bad. it’s mainly just us having fu...

hi so im gonna try to keep this short but im really scared of getting in trouble bc i’ve (jokingly, nothing serious) sent and said some dirty things to my friends who are around the same age as me (they were all fine with it and did the same sorta stuff btw). i’ve heard you can get charged if you do...

ok thanks!!! i guess i’ll just have to figure it out myself and look at the pros and cons of either option. again, thanks for the help!!!!

hiya sam!! personally, menstrual blood and being in contact with it is kinda a turn off for me and kinda grosses me out. i could use gloves but im still not too sure how seeing the blood/fluid would make me feel. i really do wanna do the deed but all that stuff is sorta getting in my way and im not ...

most of the responsibilities i have are more around the house things, so not really, unless im cleaning my room. too, i dont currently have any irl friends, well, besides my brother (me and my mom are trying to work stuff out with that tho) so i unfortunately currently dont have that option. also i ...

hey sorry if i asked this question before, i have bad memory and sifting through all my previous posts would just be a chore. basically sometimes i get horny when im on my period, but i try to keep myself from masturbating or looking at porn, mainly bc idk how to masturbate on my period without gett...

so so sorry for the super late response!!!! ive been busy with stuff and i just totally forgot i cant really get my mom ro do anything bc she works from like 6:30 am to 5pm. i could probably chill by myself in my room but i usually have a decent amount of responsibilities at home like watching the p...

mhm. its a bit tricky bc i can only really handle like 15 minute walks (and i only really know one route)

my dream i guess is to eventually go no contact at least for a while. its not really possible rn but hopefully someday

i can take walks but that’s about all i can think of rn

thanks!! that article was pretty helpful!! after thinking a bit i thought of a few more things: - im aro and not interested in a romantic relationship, which would probably make things harder - a lot of the friendships i seem to make, the people either end up being kinda crap, we both just kinda for...

heyo so basically in a previous post i talked about how i didn’t want to have sex with anyone besides headmates and well, after some thinking we’ve realized that that is not the case but we’re having some issues so basically we’ve realized that the idea of having sex with someone (in the outerworld ...

i’ve already practically begged my mom to kick her out multiple times but to no avail unfortunately. dont get me wrong i love my mom and shes great but when it comes to that stuff she’s not the best also yeah i know. although surprisingly nobody has called anyone for that before, the one time a ther...

yeah she is. most of the time shes with her bf but im always so anxious and on edge and i just generally feel so awful when shes here.

also yeah i’ll probably do that!

hiya!! sorry for the late response i’ve just been thinking about things. i guess it would just help me identify what’s really happening so i can stop questioning everything and figure out what to do going forward, aswell as possibly confirming my suspicions i do hopefully have my first therapy appoi...

hi so this is a more quick one but i haven’t masturbated for about a week probably, mainly since i’ve been on my period, and i did it today and i came extremely fast. is this normal because of being pent up or something and will i last longer if i masturbate more frequently? because when i would mas...

thank you!!

yeah that’s essentially how i feel. thank you for the kind words. i guess it just feels so freeing especially after all those years of sexual shame to identify as aroallo. after we unpacked everything and feel more confident in our sexualities idk it just feels so liberating. it feels nice to just e...

thank you so much, this helps a lot and i feel a bit better after reading all that. in terms of the things ive read it’s mainly just stuff about what sexual attraction feels like n stuff from like webmd or whatever. im not 100% sure where the feeling is coming from. ig its just a general worry that ...

ahh!! my apologies.

basically in short i mainly wanna know what im experiencing is actually sexual attraction and not something else, and if il actually aroallo i guess. aswell as general validation ig? im sorry that the post was hard to understand :[

hmm i guess slightly?

there’s a lot more that happened than just manipulation and gaslighting and stuff but my brain is a bit fuzzy rn bc i just woke up.

i’ll definitely take a look at that article later! thanks!