the only time i told then i had a partner was after i broke up with my last partner so yeah pretty much the first time. to be honest they’ve never really met many of my friends, although sometimes they are judgemental about people i watch on youtube and stuff so im worried itll be like that. im kind...

hi!

that sounds like a good plan, although idk how i would arrange that and im also worried they my parents wont like him.

also yeah that makes sense. thanks!

hi! thanks for the help!! we did discuss it and in terms of like romantic stuff we’re mono. its just that hes still with his qpr because they’ve been together a lot longer which im ok with. i just really dont know what to do about my parents tho and telling them about all this ough. im worried they ...

that sounds like a good plan. although i just dunno how or when to bring it up. although i should probably do it by tuesday because we have um. plans tuesday. also i guess kinda an update we’re together now and stuffs been cool. its been kinda tricky navigating stuff bc hes also in a qpr with our mu...

hiya!! you’re right. if its ok can we discuss more about the anxiety and such later when i can form my thoughts better? on the stuff about parents, honestly that probably is the case. especially because she got pregnant with her first kid decently young which might trigger something in her. i just d...

hi latha! that article helps a lot. im still having a bit of anxiety mainly due to trauma related reasons of like “oh what if its a facade and ill end up getting hurt” and stuff like that even when given the criteria in the article they're a safe person. i will say i do have a decent amount of issue...

hi! i have kind of an update. sorry for not responding after so long!! also by “clean” he means that they get tested regularly. now for the update i suppose and also asking for advice bc um im struggling lol. so i guess in a series of very impulsive (on my part) events i told him how i felt and appa...

hey willa! thanks for the resources. ill read up on it a bit later! i guess the main thing im scared of is not knowing if im pregnant or have an sti and the fear of asking my parents to get me tested for those things. i have GAD so im anxious pretty much all the time about everything. im on medicati...

hi latha! thanks so much! i think a plan would probably help although i dont really know where to start and what should go into it so i may need some help. my mom hasn’t been upset over these topics before. she knows i masturbate after an incident with the bedsheets and wasn’t upset about it but im ...

hiya!! thanks for all the advice i appreciate it all! i agree that i definitely should practice being more sex positive with myself and i’ll definitely work on that moving forward. and yeah i think for now im just gonna wait and see how everything goes before jumping into anything. i also have a bit...

hi! for the past few months ive been going to a semi local queer youth group and ive met a few friends there who are really cool. one of these friends ive found myself experiencing attraction to and having sexual thoughts about and idk what to do. he’s really cool and nice and funny and fun to be ar...

alrighty! thanks!

that sounds good!! thanks!

i guess one thing im unsure of is how i should like open or start the conversation. like if i should be like “hey can i ask you something it may be kinda weird and personal but hear me out” or something else entirely.

the only “bad” way they’ve reacted in situations like this is mainly my mom telling me im too young for certain things so ig im just worried thats gonna happen but i guess it would be a risk im willing to take. ill try to talk to them later and hopefully it goes well. do you have any ideas on what i...

hiya andy! thanks for your input and i’ll keep all those things in mind! im just worried they’ll say im too young for it or react badly mainly, so idrk how to ease that anxiety. as for what i said to my stepmom last time, i basically said that i was doing hormonal teen stuff and i made a mess, so id...

hey caitlin! thanks so much for the help! i’ll try to keep all of that in mind!! i guess one issue im having is that part of me feels like it would be weird to ask them even though i know its not and i also just dont know how/when to bring it up and idk what specifically i should say, like if i shou...

howdy!! long time no see. after a while i decided that i should probably revisit this site and ask a question (after cringing at past posts ive made lmao) my main issue currently is that ive been really really wanting a toy (specifically the fascination sleeve stroker by gendercat i think the name w...

ohh ok that makes sense! thanks! ive been kinda thinking back and i believe i did find myself sorta “attracted” to certain people and characters when i was little but i didn’t know if that was like “sexual attraction” or not (it also could’ve been just aesthetic or sensual attraction or something) s...

howdy! long time no see! i just came here to ask something rq bc im really not sure. what age does sexual attraction usually start? can like a little kid experience it (i dont ask that to be like weird or anything im just genuinely curious) or can it develop in like mid teens or something? ive been ...

howdy!! yeah you’re right. theres just so much internet discourse and people having some pretty iffy takes regarding sex that it starts to take a bit of a toll so its nice to have a sorta “reality check” every now and again lol. also yeah that makes sense!! i think im just gonna take some time to th...

hiya!! so basically ive been struggling a bit. mainly bc as ive been exploring my sexual identity ive had moments where im like “wait is it weird for me to wanna identify this way and am i too young?” for example i like wanna use top as a label for myself bc even tho i haven’t had partnered sex ik i...

thanks!!! apologies for having so many questions. its just kinda tricky bc some things i’ve experienced i haven’t seen covered or answered in any pre existing articles and such (not just here but in general), and im also pretty forgetful so sometimes i accidentally ask the same question a few times....

pff yeah for sure!! also yeah i think so too. im pretty sure it wasn’t self lubrication tho bc it was definitely pretty thin (like a watery consistency) and came out of my urethra and stuff in like little spurts almost? (like it wasn’t a huge gush of liquid but it also wasn’t just a little dribble i...

i’ll def do that more!! also kind of an update bc something happened and i dont think it warrants a whole new thread; so basically i was doing a good ol edging session, and when i was touching myself i suddenly like felt a build up of pressure (not like an orgasm but something else) and i felt liqui...

ohhh yeah that makes sense!! and yeah that is pretty similar to how i feel. it also doesn’t help that like its kinda been drilled into my mind that like “simultaneous internal and external stimulation makes you have better orgasms!! it makes you ejaculate!! its just generally superior!!!” etc etc wh...