I've never had oral sex and I probably won't have it any time soon, but I keep wondering about some stuff. What is semen like texture wise? Is it likely to cause sensory issues in people, who experience them? On the other hand, what about discharge/lubricating fluid that the vagina makes? I know wha...

So like, this is just an update on the whole situation lol. I actually got myself a tiny vibrator like a month ago (only after getting a regular sized vibrator that was too big...) and it has really improved masturbation for me to the point that regularly touching myself feels kinda boring now, but ...

It always feels kinda underwhelming, it just does absolutely nothing when I don't focus on what I'm doing. I think so, but I also started masturbating normally after I realized that I'm trans, so it could really just be the dysphoria as well. Unfortunately, I don't feel like there are many options i...

Hey, funnily enough, that *was* on my computer. Idk why, but I feel like I can't focus on anything else while touching myself otherwise I just get too distracted. Even just fantasizing distracts me from what I'm doing. I mean, I used to think that it's more important that I enjoy it at least somewha...

Yes, I do mean ejaculating. Ngl, that question threw me off for some reason, because it's kinda hard to say. I personally find it very attractive when others (especially men) ejaculate. For me though, I would find it attractive if I could do it + I generally like the idea of ejaculating on people. L...

Weirdly enough, I don't think I do. The only thing that could be something like that is that I've used a menstrual cup and it kept sliding down, but afaik, it's probably just too small. Definitely, it's just that I would have to be sure before getting one, because I don't want to waste money on some...

Hello, I think I'm pretty sure it was actual pee, because at that point in my life, I found out that I was drinking too much water and considering the fact that I went to the bathroom a lot that night, I think it's way more likely that it was just pee. I wasn't using lubricant at that point in time....

When I was a few years younger, I could actually masturbate somewhat normally, but I've come only once in my life. It was okay, but I ended up probably peeing on my bed? I went to the bathroom beforehand, but then I came and something was coming out of me (a mysterious liquid that was probably pee) ...

That's good to know. It's just that my friend told me that I should get a new pot, because he thinks there could be food residue and bacteria and that that could give me a vaginal disease or like an UTI or something and I would prefer not having to tell my parents about that lol.

Well, I've bought myself a menstrual cup, because menstrual cups started pissing me off and I know that you have to boil a menstrual cup before using it and after your period ends. Do I have to get a brand new pot for this or would a cleaned pot that would be only used for my menstrual cup be enough??

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I decided that we actually shouldn't do it, because it actually sounds really unsafe. Even nudes sounded kinda insane to me, so idk why I even considered doing this. I just feel kinda stupid rn.

Hello, Like, I've mentioned already, it has been pretty hard to find articles about it. Most of the stuff I've seen was about the actual sex part or it was just "Trust your partner and do it on a safe site." Maybe I'm just really bad at searching things up or something idk and I just feel ...

Sooo, I met a girl on discord. I've known her for at least a year at this point and after one random voice call, we started talking to each other sexually. We're both 18 and it's fun to do this stuff and I had the fantasy that we could have a sexual video chat. Basically that we would call each othe...

That's good to know. The thing I meant is that the parts are anoatomically similar and all, but the way you interact with them is not the same at all. I mentioned it, because I used to think that it would be really amazing to touch it, but it just feels meh + when I touch it and aren't aroused enoug...

Very late reply lol. I actually didn't really take a break, but I realized that I was just kinda forcing myself to do it and that made it not pleasurable. The thing is that I have a weird libido, which means that sometimes I can do it 2-3 times a week and then sometimes not do it for weeks/months. M...

That's good to know, thanks!! I think my parents hopefully wouldn't be angry if that happened, but I just don't like sharing that information with them (I don't have a good relationship with my parents).

Hypothetically, if that happened, would I need to go to a doctor or something? I'm not sure I'd want my parents to know that I've used lube before-

That's good to know. If it has no smell and has no color, the rules still apply, right?

I bought lube at some point and the packaging says that you should use it up in 3 months after opening it. It has been 3 months since buying it and I didn't use it up. What am I supposed to do now? I assume I should dispose of it, but idk how to dispose of it. The expiration date that is written on ...

Well, I tried something like that and just like the one thing that used to work, it was pleasurable like once and then it wasn't pleasurable at all the next time even though I was really in the mood and everything.

Think I might just give up on this at this point.

That makes sense yeah. It just feels odd to experience when I've heard that some people do it as often as once a week and tbh, I'd rather watch youtube or just anything else really. I think it could be the reason why that happens. I can at least get "in the mood" when I watch stuff or fant...

I ended up buying some lube anyway, but I got my period like a day later, so I didn't get to try it (I guess I could have, but that is just too messy for me). I tried it and maybe I just didn't get enough/didn't do it in time or just both, but I feel like it didn't solve my issues. It's really hard ...

I've thought about getting lube before, but it honestly sounds so awkward. What if the cashier ends up remembering me as the teen, who got lube?? Lol. Also, would it be okay if a person never wanted to masturbate?

I'm 17. I had masturbated only a few times before I turned 17 and I decided that I want to try again and figure out what I like and it has been very disappointing. Touching the stuff inside me can usually give me some pleasure, but I usually get bored after like 10-15 minutes and I never come. When ...