Hi Sam, I would very much like to talk about the anxious->lack of pleasure->anxious because of lack of pleasure loop because I really feel that’s what’s the matter. I am naturally an over-thinker; one time he expressed to me that he feels guilty because I have never finished and ever since then I co...

Hi - thank you for such a quick response. To be honest yes. When i’m having sex I don’t think about it but now that we’ve started to incorporate clitoris stimulation I can’t help but feel so anxious that it’s not working. I guess that interferes with my pleasure. Especially since he doesn’t know wha...

I’m 18 and I’m new enough to masturbating. i’ve tried so many times before though but every single time I try to masturbate it feels amazing for maybe 15 seconds then I just feel such a drop of pleasure. No it’s not an orgasm. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. If I keep going it comes back after li...