I've been thinking about avoiding media like that, so I think I'll give it a try.

Also, my partner and I tried calm activities and pacing yesterday and I think it worked! It made everything way more fun and safe. I think we'll be doing more calm activities in the future. Thank you so much!

Hi Sam! It's so nice to hear from you again. :D It's mostly just been a stressful period for us. My partner has been ok since he has a higher drive than me and he's used to being stressed, but I find that any amount of stress just gets to me. Things like finding a job and having enough time or priva...

Hi Scarleteen, long time no see! I hope everyone is doing well here. :D Recently I've been having problems around anxiety during sex. Sometimes when my partner and I are having fun, I find myself questioning if I want to do these things even though I do want to do it and we're both fully consenting....

Hi Sam, thank you for the advice today! It's helped me a bit in re-framing my (relationship) anxieties. :D I'll admit that I'm usually not awake at that hour, but I'm glad I could make the chat hours today too. If I wanted to work out a time to schedule at a later date, how can I do that? I know the...

Hi there! I need advice on something in my relationship but I don’t feel comfortable posting it to the public forums. I don’t like the idea of my private experiences out there on the internet, but I still want an outside opinion. Is there any other way I can get help from here? I know I can organise...