hi! so i was with my boyfriend today and no intercourse happened, but i did give him a handjob and halfway through (way before he ejaculated) he asked me to touch myself, so i did -- but only my clit, i didn't actually get to finger myself i was a bit paranoid that this might have a risk (i was worr...

hi!
are there any forms of medication that reduce the effectiveness of plan b pills?
im currently sick with a sore throat and a fever but idk if paracetamol will play a role in reducing the effectiveness in the plan b pills i took

yeah i do think it'd be helpful! hopefully she's open to actually getting me help this time

unfortunately i have not been able to get any professional help around my anxiety, my mom pointed out that she thinks i might have ADHD and i might try to convince her to get me properly diagnosed and use that opportunity to also talk about my anxiety to a doctor but in all honesty idk if this plan ...

hi! my plan b pills arrived today and i took them a few hours ago and right now am feeling a lot calmer i feel like i might have been overly anxious and the plan b pills helped with it a bit a pattern i've noticed is that i start overthinking waaaay too much and my mind starts twisting reality and m...

hi, i've read the article and it's definitely calmed me down could you elaborate on why plan b isn't necessary? i thought that it might've been since there potentially could have been contact with precum and i think having plan b pills on hand or being on birth control would help with my anxiety in ...

hi, last night i had a sexual encounter with my boyfriend the thing freaking me out is he put a condom on, realized it was the wrong side, and flipped it to put it back on just as he was about to penetrate me, i told him to stop - so technically we didn't have intercourse there was no rubbing and ul...

hi, i assumed i'd gotten over these fears because the last time i had a sexual encounter, i was totally fine with it and had no anxiety surrounding it i think one of the reasons why i'm so anxious this time is because it's with a new guy and not with my ex (whom i was with for quite a while), this g...

hi! thanks for the response, it's helped a lot i think i might've been overly paranoid, in my mind i KNOW that there's no way pregnancy would happen, but whenever i begin to relax, my mind keeps saying "but what if you're so sure it won't happen and then it suddenly happens?" and that's be...

hi i've read through the article a few times and it's calmed me down it's just that i keep doubting myself, i know we didn't make any intentional direct genital-genital contact but i'm so worried that his genitals might've accidentally brushed over mine (even though i didn't feel it, so i think it d...

hi! things got steamy between my boyfriend and i (new guy, broke up with the last one) we were completely naked but i can 100% be sure that he did NOT ejaculate and there was no direct genital to genital contact the only thing i'm worried about is he touched his penis which might have had precum on ...

i think i'd like that advice on how to deal with my emotions and face it better and as for keepung myself busy, i've found that reading helps calm me down but sometimes i don't even have the motivation to get a book and read on the good side, i feel a lot better now i feel like i'm starting to accep...

i feel happy and distracted with other people but when im alone, my thoughts get to me
i try to reaffirm to myself that things will be ok but i just still miss him
a part of me wishes he was a bad person so that i could just hate him instead of having to love him silently

i do
but i just feel so confused
like this moment will last forever and it'll hurt forever
and it hurts so much to let myself feel all my feelings

i broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years it was a mutual breakup and we ended on good terms but it hurts so damn much he's been there for me when i had no one so idk how to live my life without him he was so engraved into my daily routine how do i sleep without calling him? how do i cope with ...

hi, i know this is a site for sex ed but i don't really know who to talk to about this i'm going in highschool and i have to choose which subjects to study for the next 3 years and i don't know, i'm stuck on which ones to choose one wrong move and my grades are down the grade and my chances of getti...

hi the boys at my school seem to not be able to wrap their heads around the fact that i do not want to have children, at all a lot of adults around me tell me that i'll change my mind as i grow up but i really don't think i will i don't want to sacrifice my body, my career, my life for a child i kno...

hi! i'm coming back here a bit confused because my period isn't here yet it isn't late or anything, i just was expecting it to be here already my last period started on the 28th last month and it's been coming around every 25 days so i'm just a bit concerned i guess? i've been reassuring myself that...

nope, there hasn't been any major changes like that

hi! thanks for the reply
my period's supposed to be here in a few days and i've been experiencing more watery discharge than usual, is this normal?

hi!
can pms symptoms change?
i used to have breast soreness before my periods, then it stopped for a few months and i think i'm experiencing it again

thanks for the additional info sam! i'm a bit confused, i've read some of the stuff here and i'm a bit confused as too why this push is needed when certain situations like semen dripping down to the vagina during anal sex (basically high risk activities where the semen isn't being directly "pus...

yep it does!
is that also the reason why there needs to be direct and immediate contact with ejaculate for there to be a pregnancy risk?

hi! i'm back with another question
so i know semen can be transfered from one plave to another, but when that happens, does the sperm in it just get "smushed" and dies?

hi! so i'm in the middle of going through a semi-pregnancy scare i say semi because i know there isn't anything to be scared or worried about. i've only been practicing safe sex (manual sex) with my boyfriend and we've done this before and i was totally ok, yet this time for some reason i've been ge...