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- Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:03 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
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Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Thank you very much, I will keep this in mind !
- Tue Jun 13, 2023 7:51 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
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Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
I always like these moments of "sexual exploration", but I think that I don't feel that attracted to him. I'm completely comfortable being close to him though and I like it a lot. But I still would say that my desire for him is rather moderate. Also I never really had crushes or celebrity ...
- Fri Jun 09, 2023 1:55 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Hello Carly, Thanks for joining the conversation! I've never received any negative comments about my looks, either as a child or more recently. I don't get compliments regularly either, but I can only remember positive things coming from my family or friends. But I've probably always felt that I was...
- Thu Jun 08, 2023 1:53 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
I don't recall my friends or parents, or the media I was exposed to, painting a negative image of sex, masturbation or genitals. I have no such memories, I would even say it's quite the opposite. I think I'm a bit of a prude by nature and I discovered all these things very late in life, it hasn't ex...
- Thu Jun 08, 2023 1:04 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Hi iamamandab,
I don't have any issue with it, I'm glad you joined ! Thank you very much
I would be comfortable exploring this problem, I think it would be very helpful if I could understand why I feel like this, in order to be able to touch myself and be touched properly.
I don't have any issue with it, I'm glad you joined ! Thank you very much
I would be comfortable exploring this problem, I think it would be very helpful if I could understand why I feel like this, in order to be able to touch myself and be touched properly.
- Wed Jun 07, 2023 6:08 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Thanks for the recommendations! It's true that I've had problems accepting smells, discharges, hairs... My boyfriend has often reassured me about that and it's getting a bit better, but I still have quite a long way to go. I'm going to apply the advice in these articles and see what happens. I'm ver...
- Tue Jun 06, 2023 11:44 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Hi Sam, Thanks again for your answer. By posting here, I was precisely hoping to get some advice on how to be more accepting of my body, and how to make my brain more "engaged" and be more willing to accept sexual situations. If you have any idea on how I could gradually become more comfor...
- Mon Jun 05, 2023 1:43 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Hi Sam, Thank you very much for your reply! As for my sensitivity, I don't think I'm sensitive to certain fabrics, I'm only sensitive to human touch (intimate or not), I'm very ticklish. And the scabs on my nipples only come from touching them with my fingers, there's no liquid used. But I think I h...
- Mon Jun 05, 2023 12:25 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
- Replies: 16
- Views: 36280
My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Hello, I have a number of issues that are preventing me from having a fulfilling sex life with my boyfriend (of one year). We've made very slow progress over this last year, but recently I feel I've reached a plateau, which is why I've come here looking for help. I'm a very ticklish person, and he f...