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by prunelle
Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:03 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Thank you very much, I will keep this in mind !
by prunelle
Tue Jun 13, 2023 7:51 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

I always like these moments of "sexual exploration", but I think that I don't feel that attracted to him. I'm completely comfortable being close to him though and I like it a lot. But I still would say that my desire for him is rather moderate. Also I never really had crushes or celebrity ...
by prunelle
Fri Jun 09, 2023 1:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Hello Carly, Thanks for joining the conversation! I've never received any negative comments about my looks, either as a child or more recently. I don't get compliments regularly either, but I can only remember positive things coming from my family or friends. But I've probably always felt that I was...
by prunelle
Thu Jun 08, 2023 1:53 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

I don't recall my friends or parents, or the media I was exposed to, painting a negative image of sex, masturbation or genitals. I have no such memories, I would even say it's quite the opposite. I think I'm a bit of a prude by nature and I discovered all these things very late in life, it hasn't ex...
by prunelle
Thu Jun 08, 2023 1:04 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Hi iamamandab,

I don't have any issue with it, I'm glad you joined ! Thank you very much
I would be comfortable exploring this problem, I think it would be very helpful if I could understand why I feel like this, in order to be able to touch myself and be touched properly.
by prunelle
Wed Jun 07, 2023 6:08 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Thanks for the recommendations! It's true that I've had problems accepting smells, discharges, hairs... My boyfriend has often reassured me about that and it's getting a bit better, but I still have quite a long way to go. I'm going to apply the advice in these articles and see what happens. I'm ver...
by prunelle
Tue Jun 06, 2023 11:44 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Hi Sam, Thanks again for your answer. By posting here, I was precisely hoping to get some advice on how to be more accepting of my body, and how to make my brain more "engaged" and be more willing to accept sexual situations. If you have any idea on how I could gradually become more comfor...
by prunelle
Mon Jun 05, 2023 1:43 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

Re: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Hi Sam, Thank you very much for your reply! As for my sensitivity, I don't think I'm sensitive to certain fabrics, I'm only sensitive to human touch (intimate or not), I'm very ticklish. And the scabs on my nipples only come from touching them with my fingers, there's no liquid used. But I think I h...
by prunelle
Mon Jun 05, 2023 12:25 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure
Replies: 16
Views: 36280

My boyfriend cannot touch me / I cannot feel pleasure

Hello, I have a number of issues that are preventing me from having a fulfilling sex life with my boyfriend (of one year). We've made very slow progress over this last year, but recently I feel I've reached a plateau, which is why I've come here looking for help. I'm a very ticklish person, and he f...