Hey Sam I appreciate those sources and all your help. If you don’t mind can i get your honest opinion on what you would do in my situation, I feel like as a professional in this department and as a neutral perspective you’d have the best idea on what would be the best approach.

Yes we have both always tried to be very communicative which has led to pretty much no arguments through out our relationship so far . In regards to therapy i’m looking to start soon but just still have not got roujd to booking in yet, i find the idea of sharing things like this face to face very vu...

Yes I think i’ll try do it at some point where we have a whole to talk, with the summer approaching and is going in to are third year of uni we’ve decided this summer we’re going to live together for about 2 months at her house w her family. In slightly anxious about it as she has recently voiced ab...

Yes if that’s ok. My main worry is that if i’m re talking to her about it explaining what happened from my perspective that’ll she’ll interpret it as gaslighting or some form of manipulation if she views it as me purposely crossing that boundary. I’m aware it’s for her to make up her mind what it is...

Hey sam, Sorry be on this board again but my anxiety is really bad still. I’m worried that due to my anxiety in the moment i didn’t make it clear that i genuinely didn’t intentionally cross her boundaries and disregard her consent but i also don’t want to bring it up now because it may come across a...

Ok, I appreciate your time and patience with me Sam ! some of your other responses on other posts were also very useful !

Hey Sam , Thank you for or your help and opinion on the situation it has helped me understand it a bit more what to think of the situation. I don’t think i’ll mention anything in just worried cause i’m not 100% sure if you she truly knows what was going on in my mind with it all in terms of not proc...

Dear Sam, Thank you for the reply , yes i think reading online has made it worse if anything. I’ve just had hard time now almost gas lighting myself in terms of maybe i did just subconsciously neglect her boundaries or whether it was genuinely me just not paying full attention to what was being said...

Hey Sam , I do understand but all the things i’m seeing online is making me second guessing myself i guess. I appreciate your advice is there anything else i could do to be a better partner? , this event happened about 8 months ago now and our sexual relationship is better than ever. Idk why recentl...

During summer last year me and my girlfriend were having sex, due to our height difference sometimes we have to adjust ect. At one point during sex my girlfriend says for me to wait a second but i genuinely for some reason didn’t register or take it in properly but still replied “i’m about to cum” a...