Yes this makes sense. My partner does care about my feeling and did ask for consent/stop when I asked. Even though my boundary was crossed, I understand that I complicated matters by saying that they didn’t have to ask each time. Do you think that from what I’ve said I need to worry that my partner ...

Can mistakes happen in sex and it be ok? I understand that consent was there because I said yes and that they didn’t have to ask and they stopped when I asked them to… is this right? Was it a grey area or was it okay? Honestly, I’ve had ‘uncomfortable’ experiences in every relationship since my assa...

To be clear, this is what happened: I took my bra off and they asked if they could touch I said yeah, you don’t have to ask every time but it’s nice to ask We have a boundary that is ask every time and ask despite what the other person says We changed positions They reached to touch my chest I pushe...

Hi, Yes the boundaries that we had written down were ‘ask each time, for everything’ and ‘ask even if the other person says it’s ok’. I feel that these boundaries were crossed. I’m just checking that there aren’t any red flags for assault/that just because boundaries were crossed it doesn’t mean tha...

Hi, Both my partner and I have long histories of SA before getting together. It was super important to both of us that we spoke about our boundaries and we have had many conversations about this. It has honestly been so lovely, my partner has been super reassuring, applied no pressure, and it’s been...