Heya Scarleteen! Thanks once again for explaining this puzzling problem to me in detail, and to all the others, since this conversation has had quite a lot of visitors! There is still one thing I don't get though. You lovely kinfolk, and other netizens have said that plenty of ladies love piv, inser...

Hey Scarleteen! This is acually very good news to me! And don't worry, communication will never be nonexistent, and if a partner doesn't want to, I think I can act accordingly. :) I currently have a new threrapist, and I haven't talked to her about it. My previous therapist was actually a child ther...

I actually go to a therapist for quite some time now, so don't worry!

The second paragraph will be helpful for me in the future, thank you!

What do you think, how big is the chance for me to find a partner who do enjoys piv?

To be honest with you, sexual pleasure and being a good partner is the top priority for me when it comes to sex. In relationship sex is on par with spending time with the other, kissing, hugging and the like. I'm also the type of person, who analyses the things that are important to the person way t...

Hmmmm.... Going back to the crux of it. I do remember reading tons of threads and messages of a few social medias, along the following variations: "There isn't enough foreplay/oral, how can I increase it?", "I feel nothing during intercourse, is this normal?" "Do I have vagi...

Hey Scarleteen! I night have miswrote that I meant in the last question: I would have gone with the mindset of oral, piv and the combination happening, according to the communicaton. My bad! By the way I have always though this is the "general blueprint" Now I'm not so sure anymore... Is i...

Hi Scarleteen! Thank you once again so much for your help! Unfortunately my mind can still wander back to this topic, this why I return to with these questions: If most women really engage in this act because it DOES bring them phycisal pleasure, and it's not just "the o", why does my brai...

Hey Scarleteen! Thanks for explaining! However there is a question left: If this is how should one implement it, then shouldn't it be called "pleasure gap"? And if we should understand this as lack of pleasure, then how come most of the articles that I have read have only talked about orga...

Hey Scarleteen! Thanks again for explaining the topic to me, it was very helpful. However, I still have one question. If pleasure is the ultimate goal/objective in sex, not orgasm(s), then how come most of the complaints from cis/trans women is the lack of orgasming, "you never made me cum"...

It did help, thank you. And Heather, I'm really sorry, I van get way too invested in a category whether useful or not. Thanks agains, yo!

So in this case, one shouldn't really care about how legit or not the soundscape is, but what should matter, is that the viewer of viewers enjoy what is happening, right? I am really sorry if I am overblowing this topic... Thanks, MistahCFS (I just realized that I used a username for a different thi...

Dear Scarleteen!

Thank you for answering my question when it comes to reality. Could you please answer my 2 questions regarding to pornography/erotica? You can find it in a previous post in this discussion, I don't wanna write it down again.

Thank you,
MistahCFS

Dear Scarleteen! Thank you very much for answering the first question! It is all clear now. As for my second question, I think I have one last question to be answered: How right am I with the following way of thinking?: Even though a lot of moaning and dirty talk is supposedly faked, they still have...

Dear Scarleteen! You are absolutely right, the reason I am asking the first question is for 100% comfort for my partner. Thank you for answering that, it sound great! I will definitely make sure to let my partner know, that no matter my partner sounds like, as long as She is comfortable and enjoying...

Dear Scarleteen! Thank you for the response! I now only have 2 questions. 1: How much should I pay attention to the legitness of the sexual noises my partner will make? 2: Am I right in the following: Even though in pornography, wether professional or amateur the orgasms are most of the time faked, ...

Hi Scarleteen! Last night I started thinking about moaning. Almost most people know that orgasms can be faked. With that in mind, I started wondering if moans can be faked as well. I started thinking about this because we know that in pornographic content it is quite common that the big o is faked. ...

It all makes sense now! Thank you guys very much!

Dear Amanda B, Latha, Heather, Andy and all the other members of Scarleteen! I would like to thank you all for your help and understanding so far. This topic is really important because as Andy mentioned I feel a sense of shame. Maybe you are right and it would be better to dig deeper into this. Let...

Dear Scarleteen! I would like to apologise for only being able to ask my questions with too many generalisations. This was because sexuality is one of the most important aspects of my life, which is why I want to put this puzzle together. I would like to solve this complicated formula once and for a...

Dear Scarleteen! Thank you so much for your reply! I would like to apologize for being able to reply only now. Unfortunately, something happened to me recently that has caused even more confusion. Let me paint you the picture. I was recently talking to someone on Discord. The subject was the female ...

Dear Scarleteen! I would like to thank you for answering my questions about size and masculinity. Unfortunately I still have a lot of confusion in my head which manifests itself in the following questions: If it's best to have clitoral stimulation with PIV, then why in my wet dream did I seem to get...

Hi Scarleteen! I am a 21 year old cisgender heterosexual virgin male and I would like to ask you about something. Before I do, I would like to thank you for your work and for passing on such a wealth of knowledge to the next generation! :) I recently had a wet dream. There was foreplay aka oral sex ...