(I apologize in advance for my incoherent yapping) So I've been solid and confident in my identity as a lesbian for a while now, but for some reason every time my mom and I end up having a conversation about my sexuality, my confidence lowers. She mentions how I used to have "crushes" on b...

Honestly it just comes in waves sometimes lol. Sometimes I'm glad that I've figured myself out, but then other times I doubt myself. I honestly just wish that I knew from a young age, you know? Some people just know that they're this or that at a young age, and I wish I would've been that way. It se...

Here we go, So recently I've been struggling with figuring out my sexual orientation, and I'm starting to strongly believe that I'm a lesbian. For the longest time I thought I was just bisexual, but recently I've been slowly realizing that I don't like guys anymore (& that I don't think I ever r...

Thank you SO MUCH for your reply. I'm feeling really validated now and a lot better. What you said makes a lot of sense and definitely helps.
Thanks so much for taking the time to understand and reply )

I've been struggling a lot recently trying to figure out my sexuality. I know for sure that I like girls both romantically and physically, but I'm not sure about guys. I think maybe romantically? But I also can't really tell the difference between desiring a romantic relationship with a guy vs just ...

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Describing it as loving the idea of the person rather than actually loving them in this kind of situation really fits. Thank you

Alright so I've had this sort of "crush" on a girl from my school for a WHILE now. I know her name but I've never actually met her. She and I had a class in the same room at two different times. Her class was right before mine, so I would see her walk out with her friends and such. At firs...