okay so it's been a few weeks and before i start i'll just apologize. i know why i have the perspective i do but this probably wasn't the place to voice it so i'm sorry for being inconsiderate. i was also having a really rough time with my identity so i think i just kept getting more and more angry ...

Oh also I was under the impression all year that I was going to be doing a summer program this summer and I was so excited because I thought I was going to have a chance to kind of reinvent myself, yk be more open about my identity and everything. And I was supposed to leave today but turns out I go...

For your question: obviously I feel frustrated. But the situation is different than you think. People are super nice and understanding to my face and (don't kill me for using this word) they're "normal". People who know I like girls, people who know about my history with girls- they're fin...

I had a camp friend who I bonded with rlly quickly. Like I've never become best friends with anyone more instantly in my life. She was christian and hated gay people- one time she told me that she could never be friends with a gay person and then told me i was her best friend in the same sentence. i...

I'm definitely not a person who wants short-term sex instead of long-term relationships but my ex or whatever i'm even supposed to call her is and I want to be able to hook up with her especially over the summer without being emotionally devastated every time afterwards because she didn't care about...

I've had a lot of struggles with my identity that I'm still trying to navigate. Firstly, it's becoming overwhelmingly clear that I'm not attracted to men (if you can give me a way to make kissing them not feeling like kissing a black hole I would love that) but I just never get that spark around the...

wait i forgot about the dental dam thing and i just looked it up wouldn't putting a piece of latex there literally ruin the whole point? like would it even feel good with that thing in the way? idk i feel like i can typically trust other sixteen year olds to not have an std (she didn't even have one...

1. no he's fully getting threatened with the psych ward but bc of how badly everything went and how much he destabilized my mental health i'm honestly not concerned with his life anymore. ig i could have used a different word but it's just a figure of speech 2. ya my parents were strict and i didn't...

ok well my problem with the other girl who we'll call banana (because even tho she doesn't have a penis she's still a dick). basically i kinda had a crush on her and then she asked my friend to ask if i would "get with her" and bc i was stupid i assumed she liked me when she was actually j...

okay also major departure from that entire conversation but another thing that really annoys me is when i have any sort of problem ever related to girls and every single counselor/adult figure is like "go to the gay centers". like have i struggled with my sexuality yes but getting played b...

no it just pisses me off when people talk or theorize about my sexuality especially behind my back because i KNOW those conversations have happened and i see the looks that ppl give me if the girl i used to hu w walks by or if someone mentions something gay. one time i used the word fag in a piece o...

Like sometimes I go online but I don't really "fit in" in the online gay spaces if ykwim. Because everyone is so into different labels and like pronouns and stuff and they're usually like 13 and there's nothing WRONG with that, it's just not relevant to me at all and I don't engage with th...

I'm the only (first?) gay person in my family so that makes it hard enough. Idk if any of my siblings are gay because I'm the oldest but if they are they're very lucky because I already had to go through the work of wearing my parents down to the idea of having a gay child. Especially with my mom it...

Okay so I have a bunch of things I'm having trouble with. Firstly, my sexuality: I really really want to like guys, and I feel like I can be attracted to guys and enjoy looking at guys, doing some kinds of physical stuff like holding hands, being touched, etc, but I hate kissing them. Every time I'v...