So first I just wanted to make it super clear that this is not an abusive relationship and instead is more of a masochism thing. My boyfriend is super super respectful of my boundaries and if I tell him something is too much he stops immediately. Anyway, when he and I make out/finger/etc., I always ...

I’ve been in this exact situation before and honestly it went really well. I started masturbating when I was 15, and it was clear to my mom that it wasn’t going great, so after a while I implied to her that I wanted a vibrator. She said that she knows this was an awkward conversation but she thanked...

Thank you for this, it does actually help a lot. I think you’re right that it’s ok to say someone sexually harassed me in a video game. I guess I was thinking of them all as “assaults,” and that’s where I felt uncomfortable because this wasn’t physical and I don’t want to pretend like it is. Honestl...

I guess I do actually often feel rushed when masturbating, mostly because it’s kind of difficult to find a time that works. As for arousal, sometimes I find it difficult to get really aroused until it just starts. It’s possible that it’s related to anti-depressants I take, but I’m not sure. My exper...

First, I wanted to say that I’m sorry for creating a brand new topic when I know masturbation is something that’s discussed a lot on this message board, but I figured it’d just be easier. I’ve been masturbating for about a year now, and my boyfriend and I have started fingering within the past 4 ish...

So I’ve been what I consider assaulted 3 times in my life. 2 of them were very “stereotypical,” i.e. someone grabbed my breasts, pushed his penis against me, etc. The third one is a little different though. I was quite young, and playing some game where there were avatars with different skins and wh...

Hey! I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this but here I am. For some reason, coming seems to be a sort of “accomplishment.” I know that in reality this actually isn’t true, but I’ve only recently started getting pleasure from masturbation (I’m 15, I’ve been masturbating for maybe 4 mont...