Sorry, I can't make it. I probably will join at regular times

I can try!

Hi, could you perhaps open the chat a little earlier today?

Hi, I wanted to know if I'm too late for the live chat because I would like to talk again

Hi, I need some more advice on something but I don't want to share the details on the message boards since the story isn't mine to tell but it triggered me today and Idk what to do atm. What can I do to stop freaking out? Do you have any resources? How can I stop my mind from fearing the worst?

Could you perhaps please open the chat again and repeat your message? My internet was gone before I could read it and I'm freaking out rn

Yes, I am

I would be free now if that works?

Thank you for the resources! Would it be possible to chat during the chat times today? I think I'd need someone to talk to

Hi, I'm back now. Could you send me another link please?

How do I join?

Unfortunately I couldn't make it but I'd be able to come in now

Hi, I really need someone to talk to but as it is a bit embarrassing I'd prefer to do so over private chat. Would that be possible? Thank you.

We have discussed it already but sometimes I need a lot of reassurance. I also suffer from OCD which gets triggered by my freaking out. I just feel like I cannot trust my own judgment because I have been gaslighted in my past relationships and lost the confidence in my gut feeling. My new boyfriend ...

Hey, I've been talking to a therapist and I have decided to work through my trauma of past relationships but my therapist is on vacation for now and I really would need some advice. My new boyfriend and I have a very good relationship and we both love and respect each other a lot. However when it co...

Hey thanks, could you perhaps delete my last response (and perhaps yours as well?), it actually triggers me more than it does help me. I didn't realize that before, sorry. That would be very kind thanks. I am in therapy atm so I am getting a lot of help. I think you're right about my fears coming fr...

Hello, I have been diagnosed with moderate depression. Now I am unsure how this impacts my ability to consent to sex. I have a long term partner in a monogamous relationship and I would like to have sex with him but now I don't know if I can consent to it? He is very gentle and never pressures me in...

Hi, yes kind of. I feel like I'd "deserve" it a bit because if I did it myself I couldn't be mad at others. I think it's also because I'm scared that if I did the same, I wouldn't know how to react. And I'm aware it is an OCD trigger for me, just that it has an underlying reason unlike oth...

Hi, thank you for your reply. I'm starting to see a therapist concerning OCD but it's not completely settled but yes, I'm on my way to improve my anxiety. It's just, I've never been taught about consent. I started to get educated via instagram posts (not the best way Ik) but fully understood this ye...

Hi, sorry I'm a bit nervous rn but after coming to terms with my ex assaulting me in the past, I realized I may have abused him as well but I'm not sure? Our first time was consensual but hurt very badly, just like every time after that. The first two times, I bled (1st was losing virginity, 2nd no ...

And yes, the spaces are exclusivly online because my social circle doesn't know consent as we've never been taught.

I agree and disagree with you. I do believe that overall, false allegations are rare. I myself would count my case towards the "does that count" group as I have realized upon reflection that yes, it does count and it was assault. So I see where you're coming from and agree. No one just ran...

Thank you so much for your answer, you're very kind. It really isn't easy for me since all my information on consent is from the internet and activists. My school focused on reproduction and safe sex during "sex ed" (although it was part of our biology class which might explain why we didn...

I guess I'm scared because I don't want to risk it. My ex assaulted me while I was kind of asleep (like shifting in and out of consciousness) multiple times and blamed it on me. I thought he was the person I could trust the most in my life; my heart shattered. Since then I've been scared that I'm al...

Hi thanks for the reply, I honestly don't know what to think. My ex partner with whom this occurred did not feel violated but I'm beating myself up over it regardless. If it was just a mistake, how can someone else's opinion make or break something as serious as assault? For my social circle would (...