Okay, will do. But if i were to do this and eventually come back to it, and I still experience the same issue, what can i do at that point?

When i do it, i dont think "hopefully i finish this time" or anything to do with finishing. I would like to be able to finish properly for my own fun. when the problem started i originally wanted it fixed quickly because i was scared of it, i have anxiety and going to the doctor or telling...

No i have not seen a doctor regarding this, and im pretty positive i dont have diabetes

I feel tense, i just feel left hanging because im waiting for something to happen, but then nothing does happen

Thats already what I do and what ive been trying, but that doesnt solve my issue of the throbbing happening in the first place, no matter how long I delay it i never get to actually finish

What makes it happen faster is when im more into it, or if im doing it "better," like pretty much the better it feels, the quicker ill get there.

Like i can still feel the area, theres just no pleasure, the pleasure just disappears the second that happens

I've already tried touching other places but yeah it can help me get there quicker, but my problem is when i do get there it just throbs again, i dont feel any climax it just stops and mediocore pleasure. And no i dont take medications, only some pain killers when im in pain. They usually last 10-15...

Its not sensitive to the touch, even when it throbs it feels okay to have my hand there and still touch it, its just theres no pleasure so i stop since theres no reason to keep going. Its not painful or sensitivty as you described though, and if i use lube or try through my underwear then i really j...

Hi, I've been trying to masturbate for a few months now, but I've never been able to finish. I've asked around a lot and tried many things but I think i might know why now, but I don't know how to change it. Basically it doesn't feel that good when I'm actually doing it until I find the right rhythm...

So I've made little to no progress recently, I'm still stuck on not being able to finish. I've been feeling a little pleasure throughout like my previous update, but every time I get to the end, I have that thing where it goes completely numb. Today I tried doing it again and I ended up edging mysel...

It happens to my boyfriend too, and his sessions are the same time as when he does them alone so I don't think it's strain. And that wasn't my main issue, it's just that I still could never finish and when I felt like I was getting close, the pleasure just stops and my body doesn't react to stimulat...

So in the past few days I've made slow progress, I've been trying alone every now and then and it has started to feel good, it's inconsistent but I definitely feel pleasure now, but I still have that thing happening where when it starts feeling really good it'll just suddenly stop. I'm positive it's...

Okay, thank you, I'll trying that in the future and will let you know in the future how things go.

Okay, do you have anything you can suggest for me to try at the moment? Should I just wait till me and my boyfriend meet up? Or is there anything I can practice in the mean time

I don't get it then.. am I just not supposed to feel pleasure? I don't have crazy expectations but that doesn't feel like pleasure at all. I genuinely get more pleasure from peeing in the morning or getting butterflies than that... this doesn't feel right and I could understand if it was slight plea...

Yeah, there's something missing, the pleasure, like yeah it feels good but like it's really nothing special, like I get more pleasure from butterflies I get in my stomach when I'm dirty talking with my boyfriend or something, it feels better than nothing but it's still not "orgasm" pleasure

It usually happens when I'm about to start feeling good, and I can always tell when I'm about to feel good, like when I find the right spot or right speed to do it, but no I can't tell when it's gonna happen, it always happens when I'll reach a certain point of pleasure but I still can't tell when t...

I've tried a couple times since I posted this and I still don't know what to do... my issue isn't that I can't get turned on or feel good, I do feel good, I can feel good for a bit, I'm not nervous at all, I'm pretty turned on and excited and I can feel pleasure. My problem is I suddenly lose that f...

No, I barely feel any pleasure, it feels better than nothing, but I wouldn't exactly say it's intense pleasure at all. I've thought about getting a vibrator but it's not something we can afford right now.

The main problem isn't my hand getting tired, sometimes I'm able to use it for a while but I'll instantly get numb down there at a certain point.

Basically at the beginning when I tried for the first time, it was difficult for me to keep my mind engaged and the fantasy going, but now after trying multiple times, it's definitely gotten easier and I can focus on it for a while, it's just when I start feeling numb and it stops working I lose tha...

Were you interested in masturbating before this relationship? No, because I didn't know much about it and never had a reason to do it Did you feel at all pressured to start masturbating in this new relationship? No, it was my idea to start doing it and we had both agreed at the start of the relatio...

Recently I've started masturbating, I have never masturbated before. I decided to try because I got a long distance boyfriend a little over a year ago, and recently we've decided to try masturbating together. Unfortunately when we tried for the first time, I just didn't feel anything and the whole a...