Hi Caraclarry, While fantasies, or the sexual media we enjoy, can sometimes clue us in to elements of our sexual orientation, there are also plenty of instances in which they're completely unrelated to who we want to engage with in our real lives. Part of that has to do with the fact that what we e...

I’ve been calling myself a lesbian for a while, but I was wondering. Can a lesbian watch porn with men (straight And gay) and be into it and still be a lesbian? I do still watch porn with women and for women of course. I feel like I only feel stuff while I actively masturbate. Because after I feel r...