Thank you, it's great to be able to recognise why this is happening. In the future I'll try to think harder about why I have feelings for someone. All these responses have been so insightful and have given me a deeper understanding of my emotions and feelings!

do you think it's possible that you've been falling for these guys because you're looking at them through romance-tinted glasses? I'm sure they have wonderful qualities, but maybe an interest in romance and the exciting unknown of being in a romantic relationship are what is causing you to feel thi...

Hi, I told the first guy I had feelings for him after a bit over a year and a half after it started. He was kind about it, said he liked me as a friend, promised not to tell anyone and said he was always here for me. I knew it was coming and was grateful he was so empathetic but it still hurt. I've ...

Thanks for responding. When I fall for these guys it often starts off as thinking of becoming close friends with them, then develops into romantic feelings more intense then other crushes I have, I constantly make scenarios of how I would confess to them and always think about being in a relationshi...

Hello, I'm not sure how to start this because I created my account, like, a minute ago, but here is my problem. So, it started around three years ago when I started High School. There was this guy, and he was really nice to me, and we kinda became friends (but not super close), and... I got feelings...