I have tried describing fantasies but I still struggle with the talking. Like the words just don’t flow and I don’t know how to improve on that. Also my girlfriend says that she prefers when I’m more in the moment. I do enjoy it so I don’t want to stop, especially since it’s the only real sexual thi...

Hi thank you for responding. We don’t really do sexual stuff in person. We tried for a while but I just felt like I wasn’t ready for it, so stuff over the phone is the best compromise we’ve come up with. Talking in a sexual way just doesn’t seem to come naturally to me, especially because of the lim...

My girlfriend and I have recently been trying to have phone sex. For me, I get turned on by watching her shower and in a visual way. But she doesn’t. She wants me to talk to her to turn her on but I don’t know what to say. Firstly, I’m not ready to do much in person, so I don’t want to lie and say s...