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by Ellie
Tue Nov 21, 2023 8:30 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Newbie here - Is there any actual evidence to say that porn promotes sexual violence???
Replies: 1
Views: 15204

Re: Newbie here - Is there any actual evidence to say that porn promotes sexual violence???

Hi mevsgod, Welcome to the boards! You raise some very valid concerns, and it's a good thing to be investigating the media you see with a critical lens. This is a complex debate that has been going on for a long time. In short, there is no concrete proof that pornography directly causes people to co...
by Ellie
Mon Nov 20, 2023 2:13 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I thought I was Bi but now I don’t know what I am.
Replies: 5
Views: 13710

Re: I thought I was Bi but now I don’t know what I am.

Hi lexinicole.01, It's perfectly okay if nothing seems to stick, there's no wrong way to identify yourself. If a label serves you for the time being, that's great and it doesn't make it any less valid or untrue if it happens to change later. Queer can be a wide descriptor for someone who knows they ...
by Ellie
Mon Nov 20, 2023 12:32 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
Replies: 11
Views: 15874

Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?

Hi TristanJPercy, Sure, I can throw out a few options - though I want to preface this by saying that you're not limited to any of these, the possibilities are endless, it just depends on what feels good for you. Here are some common positions that folks use: - Lying on their stomach People lay face ...
by Ellie
Sun Nov 19, 2023 10:57 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
Replies: 11
Views: 15874

Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?

Hi TristanJPercy,

Hope you don't mind me jumping in on this thread. If you're comfortable answering, what specific motion/position is giving you discomfort and is there a position in mind that you would rather try? Wondering if something like a grinder toy might help switch it up.
by Ellie
Sun Nov 19, 2023 8:44 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: trying to help out a friend?
Replies: 1
Views: 11382

Re: trying to help out a friend?

Hi Gluggaveõur, That sounds like such a frustrating situation. It's really nice that you want to help out your friend. I would start by doing just that: supporting them in whatever they decide to do about this issue. Some advice I received when I was young and was worried about a friend was to "...