Hi Heather, thank you for the advice, I think you are right I may be trying to hard I did think the idea was to reach a goal, and then when I went with no goal in mind I did go too long till I was sore, at least it was not lasting soreness. i did wake up this morning feeling really turned on so I di...

Hello, Latha, I am ok with any help I can get, and yes it was not sore this morning when I woke up so that was good and I was feeling a lot better, less frustrated than i was yesterdays even though I still didn't orgasm last night. i never really have time during the week, can't just stay up all nig...

so I took your advice, and started tonight just to be about the pleasure and enjoying it, I did google a few things the article suggested like sexual fantasies but none of them were really of interest to me I am not really into other people at this point. but i did like the closing your eyes suggest...

Thank you will read the article and next time I try just enjoy it for what it is not focus on getting to finish again,

I am new at this, like I said the first time I do think I finished was a little by accident i was washing in the shower and hit my clitoris just right then went to my room and finished. since then when ever I get aroused, as long as its at a time I have privacy, I have tried to do it again. it feels...

I would say I am usually relaxed and aroused before I start, but also maybe a little bored, or its just late enough at night. but after a while it does turn more into frustrated. there is no specific media I get engaged in when I do it though

So, I discovered playing with myself by accident, and I am pretty sure at that time I may have even finished. but since when I try to get back there it does not seem to matter how long I rub myself or put fingers in I just cannot seem to finish again I am not sure what is wrong with me