Thank you soooo much for all your help and advice! The links you sent me were very helpful and i’ll put those techniques to use. I also appreciate you giving me a link to an online therapist :) I have found that when I’m looking at or touching my genitalia, I don’t feel any discomfort, which I thoug...

I can try to do that, but I'm not exactly sure how or what you mean. As for the exercise, I'll definitely try that, thank you for the idea :) Also, I seem to only connect my genitalia to my past trauma, since that's the only time I really explored or touched it. All my experiences with it come from ...

I deeply appreciate you providing me with some links! I did read through them, but unfortunately they didn't really help that much, as I don't necessarily have any physical issues. Mentally, I just feel grossed out by that part of my body, while also feeling shame when participating in sexual acts b...

Yes, if you have any, that would be helpful. ‎ I've not been to a therapist because I don't have access to one. I've asked my parent with no luck as they are too busy with other things it seems, so chances are I'm going to have to wait till I'm 18 to take care of it myself. I have told my parent wha...

So, when I was really young, specifically around 10-13, I had undergone a lot of trauma, some of it being sexual, and other just general. It was an absolutely horrible time in my life and some of it still affects me now. I was in an abusive household, was around awful people, I made a ton of really ...

I have a few questions in regards to sex toys since I have no experience here. 1. What are some good online sites to buy them? 2. Are silent vibrators a thing? If not, what are good ways to muffle the sound? My walls are very thin, unfortunately. 3. Is there anything I generally should know before g...

Mhm, that makes sense. Thank you for your help, and I read through the link you sent - it was also very informative.
I’ll keep these things in mind!

Thanks for your input! What you're saying makes a lot of sense. I'd feel destroyed because to me it feels like an experience that feels extremely close and sensual in a way that other forms of sex just don't offer. I'm aware that people make it out to be a lot more then it generally is, so it's not ...

(I don’t know if this is more suited for bodies or sex and sexuality so please forgive me if I’m in the wrong place lol) I’m very interested in the idea of vaginal sex (receiving) but I’m quite fearful that I may not physically enjoy it. I’ve not properly explored myself down there since I’m not men...

I think that's very helpful, thank you! I'll keep those things in mind next time and try to explore my body more.

I have not had any exam. I have seen images of them on other people, and I had tried looking again a lot more persistently this time, and I believe I have found it. I tried pulling things back again and I saw a small nub lighter than the rest of my vulva, and it was in the location I've seen other p...

Transmasc here. I can't seem to find my clitoris. I've used mirrors, and I do not see anything at all. I do not see a clitoral hood or the glands. I've tried pulling things back to see if it was hidden under somewhere, but I still cannot find it. I've tried navigating through sensation as well, but ...