Dear MistahCFS, You are correct, as long as both parties are having pleasurable and consensual sex it does not matter how they choose to verbally express their pleasure. These expressions will sound different for everyone and there is no one right or wrong way to express pleasure or enjoy these expr...

Hi Chocolate Moose,

Those commercials are often for the different amounts of flow during a persons period, which can be heavier or lighter. When someone has a higher flow, that means more blood and sometimes they prefer a larger or more absorptive tampon. Let us know if you have any other questions.

Hi Trvllver, It seems as though this has been very stressful for you. Would you say you experience genera anxiety or is this something you feel especially anxious or worried about often? One source I can recommend to start with is https://www.scarleteen.com/about/pregnancy-scare-resources. There are...

Hi Shimotsuki, I am glad you found something so pleasurable to explore in your sexuality, as well as a partner that is open and respectful while exploring this with you. I just want to reiterate that just because something is out of the "normal" during sex, doesn't make the sex or the plea...

Hi Felipe, It seems like the thread before on here did not help ease your worries about penis size? I will reiterate to you that penis size is something that hinges on the myth of the type of macho-masculine man every person who is attracted to men is desired to. This is a myth because masculinity, ...

Hi Archanana, Thank you for that context. I can add a couple sources here that you can take a look at and see if anything there resonates? One that I think would be helpful to you is https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sexuality/sexual-response-orgasm-users-guide. It goes through the basics of how d...

Hi Fullcloser, Good for you for taking the time to reflect on ways you can safely express your sexuality. When thinking about things you want to try experimenting with, safety is the first priority. Anything to do with toys or things interacting with your body or genitals you want to make sure you a...

Hi kirikirikiri, Firstly one frustrating thing about sexual response and orgasm is the more stress and pressure we put on ourselves to reach orgasm by ourselves or with a partner, the more difficult it is to stay relaxed enough to reach orgasm. This source can talk a little bit more about the detail...

Hi Archanana, Intercourse involving insertion is something that is usually much more pleasurable and physically comfortable when both parties are comfortable, relaxed, and aroused. Is masturbation or arousal something you have ever experienced or are interested in experiencing? We can discuss this f...

Hi Kittylemon0, As others were touching on fantasies can be a way for us to explore our sexuality and understand ourselves, but do not have to be something that will happen or something that we want to happen. If you have a concern that you would not be able to hold on to boundaries set to keep your...

Naurmi008, Sperm cells are very delicate and need very particular conditions in order to survive. Anything that is outside of the conditions of the body, such as temperature, causes the sperm cells to die. I can include this source that touches on this topic further: https://www.scarleteen.com/about...

Hi Mothical2849, Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Working through how our upbringings and society has shaped us can feel daunting, but it is not impossible. From what I am reading here in your post it seems as though you possibly may be holding on to some negative messaging about sex ...

Hi Demigirl09, Touching on what Sam was discussing, do you think you would be able to open the conversation with your mother about the boundaries you both are comfortable with during these talks? This may be helpful so that these talks are the most fulfilling for both parties, and hopefully can redu...

Hi Jay27, Good for you for practicing safer sex with your partner and planning on how you will set boundaries with future partners. Every individual is different and it will be most important to be upfront about your expectations for safer sex and barriers. In reality, this may not be something ever...

Hi Lyle Lanley, That sounds like a good idea to book a gynecology appointment. Unfortunately in this forum, it is difficult for me to understand the anatomy you are describing to me (as well as we do not/can not diagnose in this online setting), so it would be best to take this issue to the medical ...

Hi StellaOs, Thank you for sharing all of that further. Navigating from sexual interaction one-on-one to a group setting can be a big step for many people. It also sounds like a step for you from sex in a monogamous relationship to more "casual" sexual interaction. This is not to say that ...

Hi Demigirl09, Societal standards placed on us can often feel extremely daunting and perpetually out of reach, and one big reason for that is these standards are often unattainable. There is no such thing as a perfect high school girl who has a boyfriend and everything she wants and is completely ha...

Hi Sarah22,

Sperm is very fragile and can not survive outside of the body for very long, so there is no risk of pregnancy in this scenario. For there to be a risk of pregnancy there needs to be direct contact of ejaculate/pre-ejaculate and the vagina or vulva, which did not occur here.

Hi Jacob12455, Naturally, some people have tighter foreskins than others, the medical term being phimosis. Some individuals with phimosis never experience any problems and live normal sex lives, while others experience some discomfort or pain. If you are experiencing pain or discomfort it can be som...

Hi Askingqueries,

If you don't have anymore questions then you don't have to respond to the thread anymore, however if something else arrises feel free to comment back on this thread or to start a new one! Have a good day!

Hi Starskies143, A good rule of thumb for masturbation is to do things that feel good or pleasurable, and if something is uncomfortable or painful to stop or take a break from it. There are a few different ways to approach what you are asking. One thing I want to start with is that not everyone enjo...

Hi Luna, Thanks for giving more context for what you are looking at specifically! One source you could start with looking at is: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships/the_bees_andthe_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer. I think this source can be a good starting place to look at t...

Hi Mika.m, The patriarchy in simplest terms can be understood as the system of subjugation and oppression of women socially, economically, sexually, physically, etc by men and larger systemic institutions. Understanding this we can take these ideas further by understanding how individuals outside of...

Hi Demigirl09, What sort of information are looking for about polyamory specifically? One source I can point you to to get you started is: https://www.scarleteen.com/article/relationships/a_first_polyamory_guide. This is a good source to understand if you are interested in this relationship structur...

Hi Mika.m,

Yes it is fine to remember experiences you have and things you saw to use them in times like during masturbation. This is common for people to think about certain people they know or have seen to become aroused. Doing this in private is fine.