Hello Andy! Thank you for jumping on. Apologies for my long reply, life be lifing. Every time before sex I'm already worrying how it's going to turn out, basically whether it's going to be easy or not. At the times when it's not going the way I want it, my minds wondering off, I don't feel that arou...

Thank you Latha & Jacob for your amazing advice! I have really taken on all your wise words and it's definitely made me feel a bit lighter about the situation and to be open minded. So, I have to say it's made sex a bit more enjoyable recently. When the sex is amazing between my girlfriend, I fe...

Hello Heather, thank you for your response. This is quite disheartening to hear as I'm in love with my girlfriend, I hope to marry her one day. There are times were we have sex and it's amazing and I think to myself that this inner conflict has finally resolved itself. But then it just props up agai...

Hello Sam, thank you so much for responding. You don't realise how much this has been playing on my mind so I'm extremely appreciative of your insights. With my past boyfriends or male encounters, this 'wild sex' would be me living up to porn star standards. That's what I thought sex was, it never r...

I don't know what my sexuality is and it's affecting the quality of my relationship. I never questioned my sexuality up until I was 15. There was a girl in my art class at the time who was out as lesbian and she would always flirt and text me all day everyday. I loved the attention she gave me, I ne...