Those are good guesses. I wonder, how do you feel about the guy at your school and the complicated situation that you mentioned, now? Well, I haven't seen him act in these ways; I have just seen him sit and kiss a few different girls in the past, and then also that time when I passed his apartment ...

Hi Lexie, I see why you're asking this. I can't be sure about the specific kind of relationship that boy from your previous school had with those girls- it may be that they had an understanding about acceptable behavior. Ideally, they did. But that isn't always the case. Sometimes boys can act that...

I know you said you're not exactly sure what it means that a guy in this situation can be "tricky", but what do you think it means? Have people told you why this may be tricky to navigate? What do you think of this? Also, can you say more about what you mean by "complicated situation...

It makes sense to be curious about an experience you've never had before. From what we've discussed so far, it sounds like you're considering a casual sexual relationship with this person. Is that right? If so, our article, Casual...Cool? Making Choices About Casual Sex , may be able to provide som...

Hey Lexie, It sounds like what you're hearing about other girls' experiences with this guy are second or even third-hand. Is that right? Too, adding to Sam's point, it's difficult to understand another person's motivations or experience without directly speaking with them. Even then, people often e...

Hi Lexie, You know, if something very casual or one-time with him doesn't feel like a good fit for you, then it might make more sense to let this guy just stay as a crush/someone you enjoy looking at or fantasizing about from time to time. From what you've seen, it seems like he either likes to hav...

You know, it sounds to me like this guy already has a pretty full roster, and from what I can tell from your posts so far, you're not looking for what sounds most likely to be a one-time thing with someone you only are attracted to physically. Do I have that right? Well, I guess so; it is tempting ...

Hi there, Lexie Oof, I can see why you wouldn't want to approach him in those situations, but I think you're right that you have an opportunity now. Remember, you're just trying to get to know this guy and see whether you might be compatible. Good luck! Thanks. I was planning on doing it the first ...

Hi Lexie, I think getting to know him during those classes is a great plan! And as a fellow short person, I feel you on the fact that a crush being WAY taller than you can just add to the whole intimidation factor. You know, I think something that can help you feel less like "one of the bunch&...

No judgment about just being physically attracted to someone! I was just trying to get a sense of the bigger picture. That said, if you're not just looking for a sexual interaction or relationship, my advice would be to try and get a better sense of him as a person first before, say, asking him out...

Hey there, Lexie. Welcome to the boards. :) Can you tell me a little more about what you know about him besides what he looks like and what interactions with other girls he may or may not have had? What draws you to him, besides finding his appearance appealing? Can you also tell me what you mean w...

I have been thinking of approaching a guy at my school for a while now, however one big problem is that he is out-of-this-world gorgeous, so he gets ridiculous amounts of attention; it might partly be because he is like 6'6 tall, so he stands out a lot just because of that, but he is also just mind-...