Ok, thank you!!!

Well, I think there are pros and cons to everything. Pros of being in a relationship during college are that you have a best friend, someone to always talk to, and being in love is just the best. Potential cons are that you don't get to date around or flirt with other guys at parties, for example. I...

I honestly just have a ton of anxiety, and a lot of that just manifests in my relationship. I could get all theoretical and say that as a college student, yes, there are benefits to not being in a relationship right now, but my relationship brings me a lot of joy. i also have ADHD,, not sure if that...

hi! i have a boyfriend of almost 2.5 years. however every year around the winter (idk why..) i feel like i develop a crush on another boy that i spend a lot of time with, usually someone in my classes or in my clubs. i’ve always gotten along better with boys, they’ve just been easier and more fun fo...

Well, here is how I would answer these questions. • Does this relationship make you happy?- yes, besides the anxiety i have about it • Does this relationship feel like a really integral part of your life, like if he wasn't in it, there would be a big him-shaped hole in your life?- i think so • Do yo...

To that question, yes. for sure. I mean yes I think I would know, and yes it is.

I wish I could say those questions helped but my answer is "i don't know" for some of them. I go through periods of these feelings too, and they usually pop up when I'm stressed, but I don't know if it's about something bigger. We're also doing long distance, idk if that's worth mentioning...

Ok, that makes sense. I just feel like he loves me more than I love him, but I don't know if that's just because I'm always anxious about our relationship and he's very confident in it. I just always have the tendency to want to break up with him even if I know I wouldn't want that... but maybe I do...

I have- he just tells me it's okay and that I'm not doing anything wrong, yet I still can't help but feel like I'm doing something wrong. I had this big anxiety period last year where I thought I had a crush on those guys that I mentioned earlier, but I'm pretty sure it was just me overreacting and ...

I guess so, yes. I think I just feel bad that he doesn't feel the same way I do, like he doesn't experience what I experience. How can I accept that things are just different and it's as simply as that?

to add on, i am friends with guys but my boyfriend isn’t friends with girls, which also makes me feel guilty. or if i am spending time with a guy (in a group) and im enjoying his presence, ill start comparing him to my boyfriend or feeling really guilty about having fun with that guy. a year or so a...

hi! i have a boyfriend of 2 years who i love a lot. however i do find other guys attractive and i feel guilty for doing so because my boyfriend doesn’t even think about other girls. he’s so 100% always focused on me like i don’t think hes even found a girl attractive besides me since before we start...

ok thank you, this was very helpful and i will read the article you linked over. i guess "equal" is determined by education, academic success, life experience/exposure. this is definitely an expectation set by my parents, and has become intertwined with my own values, but i don't know how ...

I don’t have a good sense of why i feel like i have to manage him. i think i explained this reasoning as well as i could in my previous posts. i think i do problem solve a lot in my life, but not sure. yes, ive worked with a therapist for a year, but since ive been at college since august i couldn’t...

hi, sorry to keep adding on i just keep thinking of new things hes just a more inexperienced person like he comes from a family that didnt expose him to a lot and even tho hes rly smart i just feel like i always have to be guiding him which isnt true but that makes me feel like im wiser like i was s...

he says i feel like his manager or coach at times but i can't stop myself from just giving my input and trying to make his life easier/better with my advice.

hi, this might sound awful but sometimes i feel better than my boyfriend. like more mature, a harder worker, more outgoing, more talented, etc. this sounds terrible but i feel that way even though i know for a fact it's not true, and he's skilled at things that i'm not, like we're a very good balanc...

ah ok, thank you so much! so helpful! have a great day.

when should i take another pregnancy test? since periods on birth control aren't real periods and not indicators of not being pregnant. also, what are the odds of precum getting me pregnant while on birth control?

Hi, my boyfriend and i had sex without a condom multiple times a month ago, and then two weeks ago. i've been consistently taking birth control pill for many months now, and he not only ejaculated before insertion, to try to reduce amount of precum as possible or sperm but pulled out way before bein...

i feel like i actually do notice pleasure in everyday life, i think that's something i'm already pretty good at. how do i work that into sex with my partner? just trying to take things slower and enjoy?

thank you! that was so helpful. i have another question, but i guess i shouldn't worry about this until way in the future but i still would like to know. i know a lot of personal anecdotes from adults that had a high school sweetheart, and dated them until well after college, around the time when an...

the article was very interesting! thank you for sharing! but where do i go from here? i've been having sex for over two years consistently and still don't feel as satisfied as i want to. is it just a mindset thing?

hi! i have a boyfriend of 2 years who i love so much. i think our relationship is really healthy and it's something i'm really proud of. the thing that makes me nervous is that i'm not getting the "college experience." i have no interest in partaking in hookup culture, but sometimes i get ...

yes, usually i've been masturbating (in a not enjoyable way) to see if i can get to orgasm on my own, but to see what i like/don't like. also i haven't orgasmed during sex, and that's another worry i have. i do enjoy sex with my boyfriend a lot, but i feel like i haven't gotten close to orgasming, a...