Hi, So, I’ve been trying to write about what happened when we met and talked to each other, but after realizing how this conversation was going, I decided to not talk about this here again. Some of what you wrote was actually helpful, like things I may have not considerate and that I didn’t know. Bu...

This sounds like a crush that you have on someone unattainable, not like mutual shared feelings, and I'd be very surprised if that changed. What do you mean by that? What if he shared the same feelings and demonstrates it? He would be wrong, right? He would be a questionable guy that is immature an...

Hi, thanks for the reply. I did thought on the beginning what impact it would might have on him, but was not the same perspective as yours such as sexual harassment and that he might feeling pressured. But I did worry if the whole situation for him would make it all uncomfortable at work, and actual...

Hi, I want to give an update: I talked with him yesterday on whatsapp and told him about what I felt. Our conversation was a bit long. He told me that he also likes our friendship, and if I was at least 20 he maybe would try to make romantic advances, but since I'm 14 that idea didn't cross his mind...

Thanks for the answer. To know his opinion, what he thinks, so I don't have to keep living my life wondering what his answer would be and regretting not having done it. You know I really don't understand this anymore. Why in that article there was a 10 year age of of 15 and 25 as an example anway if...

Hi, thanks for the reply. No, he never flirted with me. How do I feel? I feel like I had a hope that it could work, but I just deluded myself on thinking I had. I feel that I'll watch all my friends dating and falling in love and I have to conform myself I won't have that so soon. I feel like I will...

Hi, thanks for the reply! Yes, that was the article I accessed and read. Everything you pointed out about why most relationships like this are usually abusive is exactly why I want my mom to understand and support me. She always encouraged me to share my opinions and doubts I had, and she will give ...

We both work at my mom's bakery and spend a lot of time interacting and talking and shared o lot of interests in common, and because of that we developed a friendship. But over time, I started having feelings for him. In one of our talks he told me about his past relationships that he had with guys,...