Yes exactly, I’m nervous about the pain because even when i practice things that could emulate penetrative sex, i find some kind of discomfort whether it be mild or sharp. I took your advice about using latex gloves and it actually helped with my sensory issue. Going into my vagina has become easier...

Well, i think the pain/discomfort is coming from me just not being used to entering my vagina all together. When I have a good amount of vaginal lube, going in with my lip gloss bottle doesn’t hurt much but the material of the bottle kind of hurts sometimes when taking it out or going out then back ...

Hey, so I’m 18 and Ive been talking to this boy for a few months now. Things are starting to heat up and the topic of sex has been coming up quite a few times. I really want to have sex with him but I don’t finger myself and putting things inside of my vagina feels uncomfortable and scary. I have ju...

Hello, sorry for the late reply, Im three days out of surgery. It’s pretty bearable. When masturbating Im rarely ever bored. Im usually really into it and focus. Even when I watch porn I often fantasize while watching and explore other parts of my body. I tried to masturbate yesterday without any vi...

Yes, I’ve been trying to practice the advice I was given in my last thread. I’ve been experimenting more with hands on masturbation rather than legs only because I have an ACL reconstruction surgery coming up in a few days and I know the method of maturation where I squeeze my legs together won’t be...

17F Here and I’m a bit new to hands on masturbation. To satisfy myself I usually squeeze my legs together but lately I’ve been wanting to try clitoral stimulation out. I don’t like fingering but so I wanted to try this method out. I’ve been rubbing around and on my clit but the sensation is faint. I...

You’re right, maybe I’m just overthinking this whole thing. I’m going to take your advice, take a breath, and do my best to explore my body. Thank you so much for helping me.

Hello, thank you for your reply. It just makes me sad knowing this will be the only way I can masturbate. It’s too specific and inconvenient. I need my back leg to be prompted against a wall while being on my stomach in order to squeeze my legs together. This position in itself isn’t very seductive ...

I think the pain is happening because I don’t know what I’m doing when I try to masturbate. When i squeeze my legs together, it’s very tight but never painful or uncomfortable. Yes, I know a way to pleasure myself, but using that technique in bed with my partner might make things awkward, so I prefe...

Hello, thank you for your reply. (1a) I haven't talked to a gynecologist before, and I've never had an appointment with one. I feel a bit nervous and embarrassed about it. (1b) This pain usually only happens when I'm trying to please myself or someone else is trying to please me. I've experienced a ...

I’m 17F and Ive been masterbating by squeezing my legs together while on my stomach for almost 10 years now. This tenchique along with porn, helps me get off every night. I’ve tried masterbating by stimulating my clitoris with my fingers but it feels numb and sometimes painful. Even when I’m in a se...