I know the instructions for the toy I bought say to wash it with mild soap and warm water, but it doesn’t clarify exactly what is a mild soap. Is dish soap a mild soap? Is hand soap a mild soap? Do I need to buy a special soap specifically for the toy, or can I (preferably) just use a soap I already...

I’m a 21 year old transmasculine non-binary person and I’ve never been to a gynecologist before. I think I’m supposed to visit one every year since starting puberty, but my mother never took me to one when I did start puberty, and I think she just… forgot? I never brought it up with her, I don’t lik...