I’m very self conscious that the only times I’ve even kissed anyone have been during party games. The older I get the more embarrassed I get about my lack of experience and recently it’s gotten past just the social pressure, I just really want to have sex. Maybe it’s partly an effect of being on tes...

Thank you, I appreciate the advice. I tend to get very frustrated because I feel like there isn't anything that I can actually DO, but it is nice to be reminded that I'm not doing something awful that no one has ever done before. I'm mostly just trying not to think too much about things in the long ...

I’ve started going on hrt behind my parents back and I just can’t stop feeling horribly guilty about it. I think I should come out to them but I don’t think I’ll be able to handle the aftermath. About two years ago, I got outed as liking girls and I remember my mom tearing up and just sitting there ...

I think it would be helpful to have a safety plan. I’ll probably keep in contact with my friend although I sometimes feel uncomfortable talking to him about this stuff because he transitioned so much earlier than me and is now stealth. I’d appreciate any advice on reaching out to other queer people....

I have thought about how to talk to them once the effects show up, but I don’t really have a backup plan for if things go really badly. Right now, I have a friend who’s also trans and knows about my situation but he’s moving to another state soon. I do live in a big city so I should be able to meet ...

Thank you for the recourses. I should be able to transition safely at home. My parents don’t have very positive views on these kinds of things and even though it’s mostly out of ignorance, I also don’t really see any willingness in them to learn more. On the other hand I have a pretty good relations...

Hello, I have an appointment at a gender clinic tomorrow that I made behind my parents’ back and I feel very nervous. I basically just turned 18 and will be living for my parents for another year. Although I really don’t think that my parents are going to be supportive of my transition, I can’t help...

Yeah, I think I knew that I should talk to him, but it makes me nervous. Thank you for the advice, I’m going to try it.

Thank you so much for the advice. I remembered some specific things though if you don’t mind telling me what you think. Like, over the summer he was visiting colleges that I was also interested in(I couldn’t go) and he sent me like super detailed reviews and pictures of all of them, which was really...

Well, we have a lot of similar interests and I don’t really know anyone else who has them. He makes me laugh a lot and after talking to him, I usually feel very motivated to do things because he takes like hobbies seriously. He’s really smart so conversations feel more stimulating with him I guess? ...

Hi,

Thank you for responding! It’s been bothering me for almost a year now haha. It’s just in the past few months that I’ve been trying to put it into words.

I’m not even sure that a crush would be the right word to use but I’m very attached to one of my friends. I really love and admire him but I’m completely satisfied being friends. To be honest. I’m really confused about my feelings, I’ve always only really been interested in girls and even now I cons...