i’ll be sure to keep that in mind, thanks and i’ll read this when i can. yes i have been to a obgyn because i had irregular periods and suspected to have pcos. i haven’t had an exam just a consultation about my period and birth control. i’ll be sure to mention this next time i see her. thanks for th...

thanks, i’ll be sure to read that. it’s not necessary super important we are just curious tbh. as i am just curious to also experience an orgasm i was wondering if this would help me achieve it. i’m usually pretty aroused and i don’t think im tense and really notice when im tight. which is why im pr...

thanks! im not exactly sure what figuring out is for us. they probably just say that to comfort me and themselves. i guess we’ll keep trying and hope that it’ll work one day? it would prob just involve what we do currently plus actually sex. also they just had a hard time getting it in and possibly ...

haven’t been on here in a while and just needed some advice. my boyfriend and i finally decided that we’re ready to have sex and we bought condoms and all was well. for some reason they have a hard time staying hard and had a rlly hard time putting the condom on due to it being soft suddenly. they t...

yes that does! thank you for the help 🫶

i think that’s the link i read but ill reread it.

hey latha, i actually have never orgasmed at all. as i said in my other post https://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?t=13560 (idk how to put a link on a word sorry) i said some details about how i’ve never had the desire to do anything because i dont really get horny on my own i’ve also always d...

that’s what i meant by what i was saying. not only by inserting a finger but also by simulating the clit. something new actually happened today. i don’t think it was an orgasm because i didn’t get like a wave of pleasure like people describe, but im assuming i just squirted as people would say. im s...

hey sam, thanks for responding. i’ll be sure to let my partner know that and also look into some websites. i think i just gotta come to terms with that i can’t finish just from this which is kinda annoying 😭 im not really sexually frustrated though so that’s good but it’s just inconvenient bc i wann...

hey! this is my second post here and i just wanted some advice. yesterday was the first time i let my boyfriend finger me and it was my first time. i know i shouldn’t have too high of expectations. i know that everyone has different experiences so i didn’t expect it to be AMAZING yk we’ve been commu...

hey! i’m really sorry this all happened i know what it’s like to lose a friend group. you can always reach out when you’re ready. i know you’ve probably heard this, but i really suggest maybe looking into some therapy. they can help you go deeper into this and help you though it. it’ll take time to ...

hey sam! what ellie said was true also and helpful, thanks ellie :) i do feel safe with my boyfriend they’re amazing ☹️ honestly it’s more with my older friends i had where i felt out of place. my friends from freshman year to mid senior year. one of them was in a relationship and sometimes talked a...

thanks for welcoming me and the response! that makes sense thank you. i was always so confused on why i never horny of just had a low sex drive since i like 15? but in the last year, like i said, i just thought about it and its most likely because of the medicine i’m on. i asked my doctor and she sa...

so im 18 and i’ve been on medication for my adhd since i was 6 and anxiety since i was like 10. ive been in SO MANY different medications through the years but i never really felt horny i would say? i recently found out that it’s most likely my medication currently. most likely it being my mood stab...