That is exactly my experience and always has been.

That's what I ultimately want from a relationship, not just with him. Any ideal relationship that is not friendship would be that way. Imagine what it would be like if you're always second, you're never the most important person in someone's life, you're kind of just there, maybe to be used when the...

Hi Heather, thanks for replying... If I could have my ideal relationship with this person, it would be much like the relationship we have now, but monogamous, I would like us to live together at some point, and with more intimacy(?) There are things I feel like I'm not allowed to do with him, or eve...

I'm really in a tough situation and I really don't have anyone in my life to ask advice from. I have a very good friend who I met a few years ago in college. We're pretty close and our friendship has always involved some degree of physical intimacy (hugging, holding hands, cuddling, napping together...