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by Shamed
Thu Mar 14, 2024 6:18 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Overcoming feelings of sexual shame
Replies: 4
Views: 3890

Re: Overcoming feelings of sexual shame

Ok, I'll do that too. Well, I think you all have given me all the good advice you realistically can, and now the rest is up to me. I'll keep working at it and I'm sure those negative messages I grew up with that have definitely lessened but still come and go will eventually disappear with time. Than...
by Shamed
Wed Mar 13, 2024 5:14 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Overcoming feelings of sexual shame
Replies: 4
Views: 3890

Re: Overcoming feelings of sexual shame

Thank you for the two articles. I read both of them twice several days apart. I could especially identify with the author of the first one, and I really liked her suggestion to actually write down sex positive messages, including things I like about my sexuality, and to read them back to myself anyt...
by Shamed
Wed Mar 06, 2024 3:50 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Overcoming feelings of sexual shame
Replies: 4
Views: 3890

Overcoming feelings of sexual shame

I'm not entirely new here, but I would like to start over in a way by spending some talking about the topic that really brought me here in the first place, overcoming feelings of sexual shame. I think this is also a topic that could benefit others here, as I know I'm not alone in these feelings, eve...
by Shamed
Mon Mar 04, 2024 12:49 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Question Taken Down
Replies: 2
Views: 4659

Re: Question Taken Down

Ok.
by Shamed
Mon Mar 04, 2024 12:21 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Question Taken Down
Replies: 2
Views: 4659

Question Taken Down

When I logged in I noticed a question I had posted recently got taken down from the boards, and I just wanted to make sure it wasn't because I said or did something wrong. I hope I didn't, but if I did, I'm sorry. I would not intentionally violate any of the guidelines. :oops:
by Shamed
Sat Mar 02, 2024 8:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Re: Was this an orgasm?

Hello, it's me again. Just one last time, I promise. I just wanted to say that I hope it's okay that I wanted to share this most recent new experience I had while masturbating after Sam and Latha so kindly helped me process another completely new experience I had while masturbating a couple of days ...
by Shamed
Sat Mar 02, 2024 5:44 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Re: Was this an orgasm?

Sorry, I forgot to mention that I did run my fingers lightly over some of the other parts of my body (my chest, stomach, and thighs) the same way I did a couple of nights before while I was masturbating, and I did instinctively gently rock my hips a lot, but I never touched my genitals with my finge...
by Shamed
Fri Mar 01, 2024 10:31 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Re: Was this an orgasm?

So something awesome happened for me tonight that I'm excited to share. I was feeling really horny this evening, so I decided to go to bed a little early. I wanted to masturbate the way I did the other night (when I first had multiple orgasms). But I also wanted to see if I could orgasm in less time...
by Shamed
Fri Mar 01, 2024 3:22 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Re: Was this an orgasm?

Thank you so very much, Latha! This was such wonderful reassurance. I don't want to feel like a freak, but you just made me realize that I'm not! I'll keep doing what I'm doing then and not ever worry about it again. Gosh, I feel totally good about all this now! And I like masturbating at least once...
by Shamed
Thu Feb 29, 2024 2:58 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Re: Was this an orgasm?

P.S. Hi again, Sam. I was rereading this thread just now and you probably already figured out that the word buck in my top post = the word contract. I'm sorry. I know it's probably silly, but that's what I've been calling my penis's contractions during orgasm since before I ever knew what the word c...
by Shamed
Thu Feb 29, 2024 12:47 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Re: Was this an orgasm?

Thanks, Sam. That certainly makes sense. But is it possible for males to have multiple orgasms like this? I can never do that when I masturbate my usual way. My penis loses it's erection and I don't feel like masturbating again for awhile, at least for a few hours. (I don't usually masturbate every ...
by Shamed
Thu Feb 29, 2024 4:04 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Was this an orgasm?
Replies: 9
Views: 2440

Was this an orgasm?

I had a very different experience last night while masturbating. First, I've been feeling so much more relaxed and at peace about all of my masturbation habits these last few days after the conversations we've had. I've been enjoying masturbation even more than I did before, and I've been giving mys...
by Shamed
Mon Feb 26, 2024 12:44 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Erogenous Zones
Replies: 4
Views: 1275

Re: Erogenous Zones

It does! I was mostly just curious, but you're right. It only matters that these things feel good for me. And I'm learning to just be glad for them and all the other ways my body can feel good. Thank you, Andy! :)
by Shamed
Mon Feb 26, 2024 9:36 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Erogenous Zones
Replies: 4
Views: 1275

Re: Erogenous Zones

I'm sorry, I know this was probably a silly question. I just get curious about these kind of things sometimes and thought I would ask. Sorry to take up more of your time!
by Shamed
Mon Feb 26, 2024 9:28 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Lesbian Sex
Replies: 6
Views: 8364

Re: Lesbian Sex

Thank you, Sam! This conversation has actually been really helpful. It's like a switch has flipped inside my head, and I feel completely at peace about this now. That peace feels so good, it almost makes me want to cry with relief. I'll check out that resource, too. And thank you so much again. You'...
by Shamed
Mon Feb 26, 2024 4:19 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Erogenous Zones
Replies: 4
Views: 1275

Erogenous Zones

I actually have another couple of quick questions, if that's okay. I hope I'm not asking too many! These questions are more out of curiosity, though, than anything else. The soles of my feet are a huge erogenous zone for me. I mean majorly. They are very, very sensitive when I'm sexually aroused, an...
by Shamed
Mon Feb 26, 2024 4:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Lesbian Sex
Replies: 6
Views: 8364

Re: Lesbian Sex

Hi, Sam! Could we talk a little more about this? Thank you so much for the article! I never thought of sin this way before, but it makes total sense to me. I was also reading that homosexual behavior is also very common among some other mammals. If that's true, then how could sex between two women b...
by Shamed
Fri Feb 23, 2024 10:02 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Lesbian Sex
Replies: 6
Views: 8364

Re: Lesbian Sex

Thank you so much! That is so very helpful. And I completely agree with you! It's just hard to completely let go of the shame surrounding those religious teachings I had growing up, even if I've since decided I don't agree with them and am trying really hard not to let myself feel any shame. Your ki...
by Shamed
Fri Feb 23, 2024 4:59 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Lesbian Sex
Replies: 6
Views: 8364

Lesbian Sex

I'm sorry, but could someone just reassure me real quick that lesbian sex (and enjoying watching or reading about two women having sex while I masturbate) is definitely okay and not a sin? I just need to hear someone say it so I don't ever feel guilty about it. Those guilty thoughts and feelings abo...
by Shamed
Thu Feb 22, 2024 4:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'd like to try a sex toy
Replies: 5
Views: 1058

Re: I'd like to try a sex toy

Hello, again! So I went back and tried the sex toy store again as you suggested, and I'm really glad I did. A different lady was working there today, and she was very helpful. I think she could tell that I was a little nervous, and she totally put me at ease. She had some open toys of every material...
by Shamed
Thu Feb 22, 2024 10:02 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'd like to try a sex toy
Replies: 5
Views: 1058

Re: I'd like to try a sex toy

Ok. I'll try that then. Thank you!
by Shamed
Thu Feb 22, 2024 3:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'd like to try a sex toy
Replies: 5
Views: 1058

I'd like to try a sex toy

I've been curious about trying sex toys for awhile now, but just last night finally got up the courage and confidence to visit the sex toy store near my college. I'd really like to try two different types of sex toys, a vibrator and something I can put my penis into when I masturbate so I can experi...
by Shamed
Wed Feb 21, 2024 1:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: No Guilt!
Replies: 1
Views: 1046

No Guilt!

Just wanted to thank you all again for the wonderful advice and reassurance you gave me recently. I've masturbated several times since early last week and have not had any guilty thoughts or feelings at all! Even after I orgasm, I just get a happy, calm, relaxed feeling, and I feel very good about e...
by Shamed
Tue Feb 20, 2024 9:19 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Overshare?
Replies: 2
Views: 2922

Re: Overshare?

Okay, great. Thank you!
by Shamed
Mon Feb 19, 2024 8:03 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Overshare?
Replies: 2
Views: 2922

Overshare?

Hi! I went back and reread my first set of posts on masturbation this evening, and after rereading them I'm hoping that I didn't overshare at all? I'm just a little excited to get to ask questions and talk about sex in a safe and positive place now that I'm finally giving myself permission to enjoy ...