Hello There Sam, To answer your question I would say quite a bit of the dysphoria is tied to sex. My goal is to get SRS/Vaginoplasty as an adult and while certainly not the driving factor one of the pros of surgery (since I’m bisexual) would be being able to have PIV sex with cis boys/men. Though fo...

Hello again, Like I have said in my previous post I am a 15 year old trans girl. I am a High School Sophomore and have started at a new school which is going well so far, I have become friends with another trans girl who is also a Sophomore and in my English class there is a cis boy that I have a cr...

Hello Andy, So the reason why I would like to overcome this discomfort is that for me being omnisexual means being able to be in Sapphic relationships and relationships with guys. It also means being able to embrace being sexually fluid and not only be in Sapphic relationships. I hope to soon be in ...

Hello Sam, So I would say if there is anything negative that if penises represent anything negative in my mind, it would be aggression as cis guys are normally the ones that talk so blatantly about them. One thing I will mention is that any relationship experiences that I have in high school (I am a...

Hello there again, I am Transfem and Omnisexual and I turn 15 this month. I desire to fully transition and have found myself uncomfortable at the thought of Penises and testes (attracted to Cis Guys but still feel discomfort). While I think that part of this is my own dysphoria, I am a virgin and ha...

Hello Latha and Sam, So I understand your points and feel that they are reasonable. I do feel at times that binary trans and nonbinary should be separate categories as the experiences are different the same way that the experiences of a Lesbian and a Pan woman are different. Latha since I know you s...

Hi there again, So I have been engaging in Oral Masturbation for a month and a half and have noticed that my mouth is normally dry after. I was wondering if it is normal for your mouth to be dry after swallowing your body fluids, or since I currently have seasonal allergies is it a result of that? 2...

Hi There Latha, So I would say that I would definitely like to Self Stimulate/Masturbate for longer as sometimes I orgasm so quick that I wonder why I even masturbated in the first place. Other than the link that you provided do you have any other suggestions on how to masturbate for a little longer...

Hello Again, So I have noticed the during Solo Pleasure I orgasm pretty quickly and because this happens regularly I think I might be suffering from Premature Ejaculation. Although I know that Scarleteen can not diagnose me with anything I would appreciate guidance in figuring out if this is what is...

Thank You I will Definitely Share this with My Mom.

Hello there Sam, I definitely understand what you are saying, which is why I typically only tell my mom stuff when I feel I need to and in the particular case felt that it was appropriate to inform my mom about my desire to have oral sex in the next couple of years and just that I started to take th...

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Hello Sam, So the Reason that I feel it is important that I’d be able to have these conversations with my mom is that I feel as a Transfem it would help to be able to talk to someone who sees the world as a female. So what I am hoping to get out of the conversations with my mom is to have things bet...

Hello Again, So I usually talk to My Dad when it comes to stuff regarding Sex and My Sexuality however sometimes I will talk to my Mom about it and it can get pretty weird, and while I know from many it is naturally weird I would like to try to minimize some of the weirdness. So on Tuesday Morning I...

Hello Willa,
I will try to keep that in mind, as far as the conversation with my mom I think that should go fine.


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Nat
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Hello There Sam, So I feel that part of the issues I have when comparing myself to Cis Girls are due to me being Latina and the high standards placed on us when it comes to beauty as far as me not get desirable I feel that me not being Cis is a Big Part of it as many times I wish that I could just b...

Hi Andy, So I would say that the dysphoria upticks when I start to compare myself to the cisgender girls at places such as my school and their boysfriends and I start to over shower as an attempt to be pretty enough to get a boyfriend like them. Another thing that I have noticed that seems to trigge...

No not really I would like to give the dysphoria slightly a bit more attention, but would still like to talk about both of them.

Hello,
Sorry, it took me so long to reply. It was a very busy week. Yes what Willa sent was helpful and I would appreciate discussing it more.

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Nat
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Hello Willa, As far as the Closed Triad Goes it is more something that I am ideally considering for the future as my current environment doesn’t really allow for polyamorous relationships. As far as the constant Showering and Shaving goes I think it stems from not feeling Pretty/Beautiful enough. Th...

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Hey there,

Just checking in on this thread, Willa If you could respond that would be great.

Hello There, So as I have stated I am not in and have not been in a Relationship, However I would like some information on Polyamory as I in theory have started to think about being in a Closed Triad. Also as I have mentioned before I am Transfem and my Dysphoria has gotten to the level of me taking...

I think the information will help. Thank you.

Thank You Sam,
I think my frustration stems from the misogyny that some Cis gay men have and just feeling like my godfather tried to change me. Do you have any advice on how to repair the relationship with my godfather?

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Nat
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