Well, I am not consistently gendered correctly and I am not on T yet, so maybe that's holding me back? RE: the aro/ace thing. At risk of being profoundly insulting without meaning to...I would hate to be alone the rest of my life, missing out on experiences most people have. People devote their life...

Oh that's really helpful thanks! (didn't get notifs of replies so thought nobody had responded)

What does it mean if a sex toy focuses on external stimulation? I thought it was just seeing them that triggered my dysphoria, but then I touched without looking and yeah, found a new source of dysphoria. I think its just about everything that reminds me that I don't have the right bits there

It could indeed be a lack of peers. I don't know many people and I am socially awkward, so I don't meet any compatible people. Though most people would've celeb crushes, wouldn't they? I have done some reading and I really hope I am not aro/ace tbh, no offense to aro or aces reading this. And yes, d...

So...in highschool I was seen as a girl and people constantly asked me who I was crushing on or in love with and they never believed me when I said no-one. And back then I figured, y'know, I am just a late-bloomer. My parents were late too. But now I am 23 and...I should've had a crush by now. Heck,...

I have no idea if it should be here or in the gender bit but I hope I can switch it if its in the wrong place. So, I am 23 and today is the first time I made a effort to masturbate (because I still live with my parents and I heard that sometimes masturbation can be really loud and I would be mortifi...