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by PomPom
Mon Nov 11, 2024 8:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to grow up and make my relationship with my mom better
Replies: 1
Views: 199

how to grow up and make my relationship with my mom better

so. my mom loves me very much (my dad too, but it isn’t about him). but sometimes i feel like our relationship is more like relationship sue and elizabeth from the movie the substance, than normal mom and daughter. i mean it, not all the time, but this feeling definitely there. i look at my mom with...
by PomPom
Sat Sep 21, 2024 6:27 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: can’t cum or didn’t notice???
Replies: 3
Views: 1255

Re: can’t cum or didn’t notice???

aghh, i don’t think i felt any kind of release, that’s the point. for me, it felt the same if i put away the toy or turned it off. also, how can i get aroused then? why the same thing that turns me on at day doesn’t work at night?
by PomPom
Sat Sep 21, 2024 10:04 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: can’t cum or didn’t notice???
Replies: 3
Views: 1255

can’t cum or didn’t notice???

so. i’m 16, recently bought a vacuum vibrator, and started masturbate. first of all, i can’t get turned on when i need to, even a little bit. it always happens somewhere random, like i’m in the class, thinking about something or reading something, but when i am home, and i think or read the same thi...
by PomPom
Fri Aug 16, 2024 8:48 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: my mom found out my vibrator.
Replies: 9
Views: 3471

Re: my mom found out my vibrator.

i don’t remember any talks like that. not at these topics at least. sometimes i tried to initiate them, a long time ago, but she brushed it off.
by PomPom
Fri Aug 16, 2024 8:26 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: my mom found out my vibrator.
Replies: 9
Views: 3471

Re: my mom found out my vibrator.

hmm, these sounds good to me, i’ll think about it. but i want to make it clear, i think about the way i look, because probably i’ll look like this during actual sex, and then this will be matter. and also, please can you give some advice on how to talk about it with my mom? now she acts like nothing...
by PomPom
Fri Aug 16, 2024 8:15 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: my mom found out my vibrator.
Replies: 9
Views: 3471

Re: my mom found out my vibrator.

yeah, you do. sometimes i think that i’ll look silly, or unattractive. or that’s i should do some other things, some important things. or something like that.
by PomPom
Fri Aug 16, 2024 8:06 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: my mom found out my vibrator.
Replies: 9
Views: 3471

Re: my mom found out my vibrator.

i’ll try to, when i’ll have time. but there’s another question to ask, maybe i can do something to ease my mind when i wanna have some alone time? because sometimes i have a lot of non related thoughts when i wanna relax. mostly they are about the way i look, “what would that person think about me?”...
by PomPom
Fri Aug 16, 2024 7:38 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: my mom found out my vibrator.
Replies: 9
Views: 3471

my mom found out my vibrator.

sooo, i’m 16(f), and i’ve never masturbated before. the problem is, i can’t get truly turned on, even though i know my kinks!! i always have a lot of thoughts going on in my head, also i’m insecure about my body, and i’m afraid that my parents gonna come in on me doing it, i don’t have a door lock. ...
by PomPom
Fri Jul 26, 2024 6:04 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: i’m fine, i feel fine, but idk
Replies: 1
Views: 2359

i’m fine, i feel fine, but idk

i fell fine, mostly, fine. i don’t feel sad, i have friends, i’m happy, really. of course i have some stress in my life and struggles, but i don’t think that it’s different from any other teenage struggles.(i’m 16) i genuinely don’t think that “something is wrong with me” in a mental way. but every ...
by PomPom
Tue May 21, 2024 7:34 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.
Replies: 11
Views: 3687

Re: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.

well, in my city we have a few places where you can get a free therapy, but it’s only a few sessions, it’s like “quick help”. that person was my friend, he said it in our fight, but then he apologized and we tried to build our friendship again. it became better, he became better, but i started feeli...
by PomPom
Tue May 21, 2024 7:09 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.
Replies: 11
Views: 3687

Re: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.

yeah it’s sounds nice, i texted her, but since we started family therapy she said that we need to have two family sessions, then a break, and then we might have one-on-one talk. she won’t be able to refer me to someone else, at least for free. guess all i can do know is wait, personally, i don’t thi...
by PomPom
Mon May 20, 2024 6:05 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.
Replies: 11
Views: 3687

Re: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.

oh. well, i was thinking about it too, but i’m not sure if i’ll be able to go back to therapy, but i’ll text her. and yes, if you can give me some advice on how to talk about it with her, please do. i’ve always wanted to have this talk with her, but idk, it didn’t happen because i was thinking about...
by PomPom
Mon May 20, 2024 9:12 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.
Replies: 11
Views: 3687

Re: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.

yeah we are not in touch to that boy. if we discuss my possible bisexuality, to maybe yeah, i feel like i’m cheating on someone, fooling someone or even myself. generally, i think i’m a bad person inside, with or without my sexuality. and i have a problem with understanding my feelings and i’m reall...
by PomPom
Sun May 19, 2024 6:25 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.
Replies: 11
Views: 3687

Re: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.

yes, i know, i thought about it too. i even started talking with girl, and we aren’t exactly friends. we haven’t kissed yet, but on our last walk we were very touchy, she put her hand on my thighs and it actually felt nice. before i started overthinking i wanted to take it further, go out on a date ...
by PomPom
Sun May 19, 2024 6:20 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.
Replies: 11
Views: 3687

I’m not sure if i’m bisexual, but i’m already hating it.

it’s horrible, i’m 16,i’m a girl, i’m probably bisexual but i’m not happy with that. i mean i don’t know, i feel like there’s something homosexual in me, but heterosexual too. i wanna try something with girl, but when then i start to think too much about if’s and but’s, “to be or not to be” stuff, a...
by PomPom
Sun May 05, 2024 8:57 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I'm afraid I'll turn out to be heterosexual
Replies: 2
Views: 3334

I'm afraid I'll turn out to be heterosexual

i’ve been struggling with my sexual orientation for some time already. it’s exhausting. i don’t have much experience with any gender, but i thought i felt something to some of my girl friends, but i’m not sure. i thought that i had something homosexual in me. i mean, i’ve been thinking so for 6 year...
by PomPom
Thu Apr 25, 2024 9:32 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m probably heterosexual but…
Replies: 3
Views: 6175

Re: I’m probably heterosexual but…

i know that, but it’s makes my life harder, not only it makes me really anxious and miserable at times, it’s also harder to build something more than a friendship. for example, I've been talking to the girl for some time already. and i know that i’m her type (probably) and she (probably) will make a...
by PomPom
Wed Apr 24, 2024 8:57 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I’m probably heterosexual but…
Replies: 3
Views: 6175

I’m probably heterosexual but…

i’m heterosexual, probably, i mean, i don’t have any experience with boys or girls, but i’m probably heterosexual. but sometimes, when i see a pretty girl, or for example some girl pulls closer so i could feel her perfume, or when some girl pins me down when we’re tickling each other, i feel how my ...
by PomPom
Sat Apr 13, 2024 11:47 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: please tell me if i am okay
Replies: 1
Views: 5631

please tell me if i am okay

idk. i’m 16 and i think about going to psychiatric for some time already, but it will cost money, and i don’t want to spend money and find out that i’m healthy and just like any other teenager have low self esteem. i go to free psychologist but i’ve never talked with her about it, there’s always som...
by PomPom
Fri Mar 29, 2024 8:18 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: masturbation
Replies: 1
Views: 2857

masturbation

hi! i’m 16 y/o girl and i have a problem with masturbation and body sensitivity in general. btw, english isn’t my native language, so if i did some rough mistakes, i’m sorry, feel free to correct me (if u want of course) so, i don’t know how to put it correctly because i’ve never talked about it wit...
by PomPom
Sun Mar 17, 2024 12:40 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: How to understand?
Replies: 3
Views: 5044

Re: How to understand?

the question about romantic feelings is kinda hard too, i think i felt something to some boys when i was a kid, when i was in age 11-13 i felt something to girls. i guess it was some light crushes or something, but i still used to confess. i remember that i liked to hug one of my friends, i liked to...
by PomPom
Sat Mar 16, 2024 12:27 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: How to understand?
Replies: 3
Views: 5044

How to understand?

(english isn’t my native language, probably i made a lot of mistakes, sorry) so, i’m struggling with my sexuality, mostly because of bodies and sex topics. i’m a virgin, i’ve never had relationships with anyone, and i don’t masturbate, so i can only imagine and look for photos/videos to understand. ...
by PomPom
Mon Mar 11, 2024 12:13 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: Am i even gay?
Replies: 1
Views: 3412

Am i even gay?

soo…i’m a girl and i’ll be 16 in a few months and i’m still very confused and conflicted about who am i. just for the context: my first “gay thought” was when i was 10. back then, I had just moved to a new city and had a new friend. and at some point i thought something like “a year ago i felt somet...