With the demisexuality versus bisexuality, I think it goes back to what was said earlier in this thread, which is that for a lot of bi (and pan, and queer) folks, they don't experience their attraction to each gender in the exact same way. So nothing you describe indicates to me that bisexual isn't...

It sounds like you’ve found that you have different feelings about men and women, where you need more of a connection with women than with men, but you enjoy the sight of a vulva more than a penis. Too, it’s okay to feel more demisexual towards one gender than another, and it doesn’t mean you’re he...

In addition to what Andy said, and building off something Kier said in their first reply, if you're trying to get some clarity on this, focusing more on the kind of person (or people) you could see yourself dating or being sexual with or that you have enjoyed being sexual with in the past, even if ...

If I’m understanding these experiences correctly, it sounds like you’re exploring a few different labels relating to heterosexuality, bisexuality, lesbian, and demisexuality. Yes that’s right, I am trying to figure out which label fit me correctly. First, to answer your question on bisexuality vs. ...

Hi, So, I have never had sex before because as you know from my previous post I have anxiety about side effects of birth control methods and have trust issues. I did however, started engaging in roleplay via texting and sexting 2 months ago because it is something where I don’t have to worry about p...

Ok then I will try store bought lube. Is there anything like one lube being better than the other? Or in terms of effectiveness they are all the same, and the only time it matters is when using it with toys. Like avoiding silicone based lube with silicone toys. But if not using on the toy then water...

Yeah when I mentioned being physically and mentally ready I meant mentally aroused and lots of natural lubrication I just didn’t want to be unnecessarily explicit. And no I didn’t use artificial lube. And good to know dilator won’t get lost in there. Can you also please answer my questions about the...

Hi, Asking this in new thread because it is not related to my previous thread as this is about toy not sex with the guy. And my that thread is still active about those things so didn’t want to add this to the mix on that thread. I hope it is ok to ask so many questions back to back. You can reply a ...

Yes in my first post I mentioned the concerns I have regarding birth control options cons, and the challenges with location. You can refer to that to respond about that. Ah that makes sense thank you so much for elaborating that definitely helps! Ah thanks for explaining that. Also, do I ask the que...

Hi, I get that but ai can think still talking about the birth control side effects I fear and discussing perhaps another bc method/s that doesn’t come with those risks and the location problem, might help ease my anxiety around sex. So, I think it is still worth discussing. Can we discuss this as we...

Hi, Thanks for getting back to me. Yes it would be great to talk about birth control options side effects fear and location. You are right, I do need to work on my trust issues when it comes to having sex. I understand that a trans guy would face a lot of risk in getting abused. But what I am talkin...

Hi, So, I am 25 years old and I live with my parents and I can’t afford to move out. They are religious, however, I am an atheist, so I don’t care about premarital sex being sinful or not. I want to explore my sexuality yet there are hindrances. For example, I have takophobia so I looked into birth ...