I haven't noticed a decrease in pleasure in any other part of my life.

I have been reading this: http://www.epostersonline.com/rcog2013/?q=node/1878

And it could be something that I could try, pleasureless orgasms are so frustrating.

But I've tried everything when I've masturbated! I've stimulated every part of my body in different ways, I've read masturbation guides, I've tried vibrators

But I've never been able to get the feeling back to a good level.

I'm just so frustrated I want to have sexual pleasure again.

Sadly I already tried to re-enact my submissive fantasies in real life with positions/dynamics etc, but like I said, with a real person I just feel nothing, even if I find them attractive. It wasn't always this way I remember getting excited by touching and kissing many years ago, all that's gone no...

I've told them I like submissive stuff, I've done light bdsm stuff with them, didn't help much at all. I've spent so long masturbating to porn and fantasy that it's the only way I know how to get turned on. I don't have a sex partner and it's unlikely that I'll get one anytime soon (there are VERY l...

Oh god, well I'm not very sexually experienced but the very few times that I've had sex with someone else I felt nothing at all, I did not get turned on at all. Even when they performed oral sex on me, nothing. I can only get aroused by erotica or porn or my imagination. I have however masturbated w...

my mind and emotions, well I remember liking what I saw, whether that was porn or someone in real life who I thought was attractive, and imagining them naked. I am submissive sexually so I enjoyed imagining submissive scenarios. I like listening to music, depending on the kind of music I feel exhila...

I think arousal would be feeling turned on, like sensations in stomach, on nipples, clitoris, electric bolts going up limbs, that sort of thing. I have memories of things like that happening.

I don't think the vaginal wetness is normal everyday discharge, it's wetness that comes when I rub my clit and look at porn and blood fills my genitals. If I'm just not recognising my mental arousal, then that must mean my problem doesn't involve difficulties getting aroused? The problem now is that...

If it's mental then how come I can get wet down there and have a release (after which I become relaxed), but without the feelings that I used to have which gradually faded? Am I just not aware of the feelings I have when I get the physical reaction? I understand mental arousal, if a stranger brushes...

I say "I think I'm aroused" because for me arousal is a physical thing rather than a mental thing, like I will have a swollen vulva and lubrication, but no pleasure or excitement. So I think I'm aroused, given the physical symptoms. Arousal is not a feeling for me, it's just a physical rea...

I just read that article, I definitely relax after the pulsations, that's why I masturbate despite not feeling much pleasure, to relax before bed Yeah I think I'm aroused, I think about things until my vagina is warm and puffy. I do have expectations of what an orgasm should feel like. I expect orga...

Yes, by myself.

When your vagina pulsates for a few seconds is that an orgasm, even if it's not that pleasurable? There's no tingling or pleasure or sensation other than feeling contractions.