What you said backs up how I was thinking through the situation. In the moment it was very hard to navigate how to set those boundaries and how to react to having boundaries crossed. It's been about 6 or 7 years since most of that happened, so it is easier to process since I'm removed from the situa...

I've been in therapy these last few months and have started talking more about a relationship I had when I was 18/19. He was my first boyfriend and we started dating the summer before college and then long distance during freshman year of college. He had a girlfriend before me that he had sex with, ...