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by Brian
Tue Jun 18, 2024 5:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Spotting before period?
Replies: 6
Views: 171

Re: Spotting before period?

She’s out of town, so she’s unable to. It’s been two days now and she still hasn’t gotten it and im panicking
by Brian
Mon Jun 17, 2024 11:14 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

I’d like that very much yes
by Brian
Sun Jun 16, 2024 9:32 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Spotting before period?
Replies: 6
Views: 171

Re: Spotting before period?

She spotted yesterday, and hasn’t today. She also didn’t experience cramps like yesterday. What does that mean?
by Brian
Sun Jun 16, 2024 7:53 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

The thing is I know how to “feel at ease.” We plan to buy birth control and condoms and if not, be prepared for an abortion at Planned Parenthood if all things fail (past our supreme caution) but i think the act itself is scary. I do not have any counselors around me. I am on break and I don’t start...
by Brian
Sun Jun 16, 2024 7:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Spotting before period?
Replies: 6
Views: 171

Re: Spotting before period?

Idk if this matters, but we took Plan B last time we did anything about a month ago.
by Brian
Sun Jun 16, 2024 7:10 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Spotting before period?
Replies: 6
Views: 171

Spotting before period?

Hello. My gf is expecting her period soon, and yesterday she believed she started her cycle, but it was just spotting. Does spotting usually occur before pregnancy? We haven’t done anything for a month, and when we did it lacked any penetrative sex, with clean hands. My gf is worried she might be pr...
by Brian
Sat Jun 15, 2024 2:12 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

But to answer the second question, no i do not have a therapist to go to. My family doesn’t think I need one. So my attempts have always been prevented. This is my first time being exposed to sexual fear in my life, so I go here to get advice. It’s pretty bad yeah, but i dont have many options.. I k...
by Brian
Sat Jun 15, 2024 1:31 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

We’ve spoken many times about it. It’s frustrating. We do oral and cullingus and such. We do precautions and everything to make sure no fluid is spread. I’ll go on by saying we don’t have condoms and she’s not on the pill, but she plans to in the future. Anyways, when the act is done we feel good, b...
by Brian
Thu Jun 13, 2024 6:44 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

To elaborate, the only activity we do with each other is oral sex. And we work on each other one at a time to prevent any spread of fluids. We also keep our hands away from our privates all times. We had one really bad experience in February that resulted in our fear that once in a while pops up. I ...
by Brian
Thu Jun 13, 2024 2:56 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

Re: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

Yes that works. You see I would be okay for the first few days and then an irrational thought would just come out of nowhere completely unwarranted. We try non contact sexual activities once in awhile, so that’s why we’ve been considering taking it further. Also can I have some examples of self-care...
by Brian
Thu Jun 13, 2024 12:45 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?
Replies: 11
Views: 350

How to stop feeling anxiety during sex?

My partner and I would like to do sexual activities again, but we’re both aware our anxieties of what could go wrong prevent us from enjoying it, or going through with the act. No matter the precautions or words of reassurance we give each other, it always ends in worry days later. Is there a way to...
by Brian
Thu May 16, 2024 7:27 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?
Replies: 7
Views: 3221

Re: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?

Yeah i understand. We had a very long conversation about how we’ll settle ourselves if we’re going to more stuff like this. We will be taking a break from things so when we do play around or do actual sex, we’re prepared and able to handle it well
by Brian
Tue May 14, 2024 1:41 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?
Replies: 7
Views: 3221

Re: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?

Wait if she could’ve ovulated already, does that mean there’s still a chance? DESPITE the odds?
by Brian
Tue May 14, 2024 8:12 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?
Replies: 7
Views: 3221

Re: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?

Ah yes I understand. We kind of both know there could be a little to no chance, but we both have severe anxiety and we took Plan B just as reassurance and for the astronomically low chance it could. Thank you so much
by Brian
Tue May 14, 2024 7:39 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?
Replies: 7
Views: 3221

Pregnant from fingering and taking Plan B?

Hello. This is my first post here as the sources I’ve looked at hasn’t eased my stress. My gf and I were making out and when things were getting hot, she got down and began to give me a blowjob. Once in awhile i adjusted my penis and it felt moist to the touch. After awhile, she wanted me to finger ...