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by ConfusedGrape
Sun Jul 14, 2024 12:53 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Dreading sex and feeling ashamed about that
Replies: 3
Views: 1577

Re: Dreading sex and feeling ashamed about that

Hello Sam W, Thank you for your reply! The article that you shared resonated a lot with me, and I brought it up with my partner to have a conversation about it. She understood and when we had sex again, I feel like my boundaries were respected much more and it was more balanced in terms of focus on ...
by ConfusedGrape
Mon Jul 08, 2024 12:00 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Dreading sex and feeling ashamed about that
Replies: 3
Views: 1577

Dreading sex and feeling ashamed about that

Hello, I've realized that I'm starting to dread whenever people mention sex, including my partner. We talk about sex regularly, and I used to be okay with it, but now I dread it. I'm starting to feel really ashamed about these feelings because I'm supposed to be a good partner who wants to actively ...
by ConfusedGrape
Sun Jun 02, 2024 12:08 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff
Replies: 6
Views: 4008

Re: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff

Hello Latha, I think I do, but I'm not sure. I find the idea of having sex stimulating mentally and would want to do it, but I don't feel a physical "pull" that leads me to want sex (feeling physical reactions in my genitalia or feeling a higher temperature) as much as I'd want to. Also, w...
by ConfusedGrape
Sat Jun 01, 2024 11:48 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff
Replies: 6
Views: 4008

Re: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff

Hello Willa and Sam, I really appreciate your replies, they have encouraged me to rethink many things. On the point about feeling up to sex, I feel conflicted; sometimes I want to have sex with my girlfriend and enjoy it, but I physically don't feel it. It's as if I really want to want sex, way more...
by ConfusedGrape
Thu May 30, 2024 8:55 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff
Replies: 6
Views: 4008

Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff

I hope this isn't a weird question! My girlfriend and I feel really comfortable with one another whether we're being intimate or not. She's been on HRT for almost a year and her sex drive has increased quite a bit. Also, she says the "girl horny" (cool term haha) feels amazing and she keep...