hi! i usually get aroused first and then feel the ‘desire’ to masturbate after.

could you elaborate on what you mean by non-sexual pleasure?

thanks :)

hi Caitlin, i recently changed doctors for the first time so i’m still looking for a new one, but when i find them i’ll definitely consider asking them about it! regarding the title, i know other people are going through this as well, but it feels isolating because the immediate people around me are...

hi Latha, could you elaborate on your first question? to answer your second question, i used to do it with an intention to “feel what everyone else is feeling” but i learned that’s not going to get me anywhere. now, i try to focus on my sensations and not the end goal. i think about the situations t...

i’m finally biting the bullet to ask about this after years of getting nowhere. i’m 19, i used to lurk this site as a younger teen for the same issue. i’ve read tons of threads over the years, reddit posts, done web research and have gotten nowhere. while i do get horny and my body responds, i’ve ne...