AFAB. Welp, just like the title said. I've tried touching them on my own and nothing. My girlfriend has tried too and sometimes I don't even notice it. It's like it's numb, like after you get anesthesia in the dentist and you can't feel your cheeks? Yeah, it's like that. Any explanation?

I'm 19, non binary, a lesbian, and i've recently gotten into my first ever relationship, and it's going swell! I love her alot. Except, the sexual aspects of it. There's alot of confusion there for me. For a long time I've wondered if I was ace. I've almost never thought about sex my whole life, and...