Hello everyone. I wanted to post an update. On the night of the 10th, I broke up with my girlfriend. I started with my concerns about porn and, as Latha predicted and I couldn't have imagined, she did actually suggest that the agreement could change in the future and she didn't want it to have to st...

Thank you Latha. It helps just to be able to express this to anyone at all. I appreciate what you said that it was "not about her not being enough for you" because I have not really made a distinction in my mind between "not enough" and "incompatible" but you are right ...

I am a guy, recently turned 22, and in my first sexual relationship, with my girlfriend of almost 8 months, who is 19. We are currently going through a long-distance period during summer break. We have been quite happy and were somewhat sexually active during school up to the point of oral sex in ei...