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by fresariver
Mon Nov 04, 2024 8:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to get Over a Heartbreak
Replies: 6
Views: 331

Re: How to get Over a Heartbreak

Like you said, you know that you don't really want to be in a relationship with this guy anymore, so it's not really very important how he feels, right? Wow I honestly didn't think about it that way but when you put it like that it makes so much more sense. It feels like I had an epiphany when i re...
by fresariver
Mon Nov 04, 2024 7:08 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to get Over a Heartbreak
Replies: 6
Views: 331

Re: How to get Over a Heartbreak

I spoke to some of my friends and honestly I had mixed opinions, some said I should try and talk to him and others said to just let it go and I think I'm just going to sit in it for a while and not do anything. As for the whole blocking thing, I never told him to block S, he did it by his own will s...
by fresariver
Mon Nov 04, 2024 10:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to get Over a Heartbreak
Replies: 6
Views: 331

Re: How to get Over a Heartbreak

Hi thank you for your response :) First I'd like to clear up stuff about the "lol" or trying to get unblocked thing. I didn't mean the "lol" as in a way to make fun of S, I guess it was just a way to make it lighthearted? I'm not sure myself but I understand how it could've come ...
by fresariver
Mon Nov 04, 2024 8:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to get Over a Heartbreak
Replies: 6
Views: 331

How to get Over a Heartbreak

Hello, I was talking with my coworker for about 2 months before we had a huge argument and I ended things. He wouldn't communicate whenever there was an issue and so I just couldn't do it and ended things. We had agreed to work on ourselves for a while before trying again if we both still wanted to ...
by fresariver
Mon Oct 28, 2024 7:19 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I'm lesbian but emotionally attatched to a guy
Replies: 1
Views: 275

I'm lesbian but emotionally attatched to a guy

Hello! I recently realized I was actually a lesbian while I was dating this really sweet guy. We broke up a few days ago, but it's been rough on me. I'm sure I don't have any sort of romantic feelings towards him, but I also opened up to him about some really personal stuff while we were together an...
by fresariver
Thu Oct 24, 2024 12:45 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i thought i didn't like him but now that i lost him it hurts
Replies: 3
Views: 468

Re: i thought i didn't like him but now that i lost him it hurts

Hello thank you so much for the reply! I read the article and it he somereally good tips and really helped me navigate my emotions. For now I'm just going to focus on myself and try and fix the way things ended with him just so we don't end on bad terms. Thank you again!
by fresariver
Wed Oct 23, 2024 8:37 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i thought i didn't like him but now that i lost him it hurts
Replies: 3
Views: 468

i thought i didn't like him but now that i lost him it hurts

Hello! I had been talking to this boy for about a month and a half and everything was good. He had like a lot of family issues and past trauma so he wasn't exactly in the best spot. I thought it would be okay, I myself struggle with some things and I figured that together we could move forward and b...
by fresariver
Tue Oct 22, 2024 9:39 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i hate texting him but i love being with him
Replies: 5
Views: 520

Re: i hate texting him but i love being with him

I just don't know, I've made jokes to him before about when he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend and going back on that to "hey I want to be friends even though I said all of that before!" just feels awful and if I was in his position and someone did that to me I know I wouldn't feel ...
by fresariver
Tue Oct 22, 2024 8:52 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i hate texting him but i love being with him
Replies: 5
Views: 520

Re: i hate texting him but i love being with him

Hello, thanks for the reply! Honestly I feel like I'd feel better if it was a friendship, I feel comfortable with texting him and talking to him as long as it's not lovey dovey paragraphs and stuff. But at the same time I also like some of the not-just-friends stuff that we do like holding hands and...
by fresariver
Mon Oct 21, 2024 9:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i hate texting him but i love being with him
Replies: 5
Views: 520

i hate texting him but i love being with him

Hello! I've been dating this guy for about a month and a half now and it's been going really good. He's met my parents and they like him and everything is going great. The only thing is I hate whenever we text. Anytime it's us two I love being with him and it's fun, but as soon as we part ways I jus...
by fresariver
Tue Oct 15, 2024 7:55 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: i'm having a crisis
Replies: 3
Views: 735

Re: i'm having a crisis

Hello! I really don't know if I want to be with him. He really does make me happy and like I've said before he's really nice but i don't feel anything when I'm with him. I know I like girls, and whenever I like them I get butterflies when they even breathe near me. It's completely different from him...
by fresariver
Tue Oct 15, 2024 7:24 am
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: i'm having a crisis
Replies: 3
Views: 735

i'm having a crisis

So I've been talking to this guy for about a month and we're dating right now but not officially boyfriend and girlfriend. The problem is I have a sexuality crisis every other day of the week and when we hung out last night I had another one. I just have absolutely no clue if I'm lesbian or not. He'...
by fresariver
Mon Oct 07, 2024 8:52 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: i'm insecure
Replies: 1
Views: 701

i'm insecure

Hello! Me and this boy have been hitting things off really well for the past month. I'm not planning on having sex or doing anything like that for at least a while, but I'm am i for the future. I have these little skin tags around my genital area (like where the leg folds. it's not like stds or some...
by fresariver
Tue Oct 01, 2024 7:24 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I don't know what me and him are
Replies: 3
Views: 697

Re: I don't know what me and him are

Hello! (I made a reply earlier but I don't think it posted so my apologies if there is 2!) I definitely see myself being in a relationship with him and I think he wants the same. The reason I say "I think" is because we've been very open with our feelings for each other and he's said multi...
by fresariver
Mon Sep 30, 2024 7:20 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I don't know what me and him are
Replies: 3
Views: 697

I don't know what me and him are

Hello! I recently started talking to this guy that I met at work. He's super sweet and we went to homecoming together, he buys me food, etc. We see each other every single day (and have for the past 3 weeks) because we walk to class together and then see each other at work after school. It's getting...
by fresariver
Thu Aug 29, 2024 5:53 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: i thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i'm not even sure anymore
Replies: 5
Views: 1720

Re: i thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i'm not even sure anymore

Hello! Yes, that sounds great! I spoke to him yesterday and we both agreed to stay friends. I just thought about it more and realized that I just didn't have that connection/ could see it happening with him and decided to stay friends instead. He was really nice about it and understood without getti...
by fresariver
Wed Aug 28, 2024 8:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: i thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i'm not even sure anymore
Replies: 5
Views: 1720

Re: i thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i'm not even sure anymore

Hello, thank you for your reply! We ended up calling later that day (yesterday night) and he ended up asking me to go to dinner with him to this restaurant in town. He didn't specifically say "it's a date" but it was very implied :( I would've explained everything to him at the moment but ...
by fresariver
Tue Aug 27, 2024 4:01 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: i thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i'm not even sure anymore
Replies: 5
Views: 1720

i thought i was lesbian or bisexual but i'm not even sure anymore

Hello! I recently started a new job three weeks ago at an ice cream place and the guy that trained me was a boy my age who was surprisingly really nice and funny! Because of this, he was one of the people I spoke to the most whenever I went to work and we got pretty close (I would also like to note ...
by fresariver
Sun Jul 14, 2024 9:18 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Lied about my age to an online friend
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Re: Lied about my age to an online friend

Ahh okay!! :( So should I just tell him? How should I go about it?
by fresariver
Sun Jul 14, 2024 9:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Lied about my age to an online friend
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Re: Lied about my age to an online friend

No his bio just says "nsfw|he/him", I don't know if that makes much of a difference 😅
by fresariver
Sun Jul 14, 2024 8:30 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Lied about my age to an online friend
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Re: Lied about my age to an online friend

I do trust him with my actual age- he's actually really nice and easy to get along with- I just don't want to ruin our potential friendship by telling him, you know? I think if our friendship keeps going for longer I'll tell him eventually or if it starts to seem like he might consider me as a poten...
by fresariver
Sun Jul 14, 2024 7:51 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Lied about my age to an online friend
Replies: 7
Views: 3128

Lied about my age to an online friend

Hello! I recently made a friend on twitter (or X), we talked for about a day and we both had similar interests and liked the same shows and stuff. However when I asked for his age he said he was 24. Of course I didn't want to pass up a good friendship because we really do get along so I lied and sai...
by fresariver
Fri Jul 12, 2024 9:13 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: having trouble masturbating
Replies: 1
Views: 2149

having trouble masturbating

Hello! Up until two days ago, whenever I would masturbate everything was completely normal, I was satisfied after 3 or 4 orgasms or less/more depending on how I felt. However yesterday I noticed that no matter how many orgasms I had it always felt "off"? Like it felt like an orgasm but it ...
by fresariver
Sun Jun 30, 2024 10:39 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I'm struggling with my sexuality
Replies: 3
Views: 15830

Re: I'm struggling with my sexuality

Hi Latha, thank you so much for your reply! I think you're right on the 'making more male friends' part. I only have about 2 guy friends that I talk to on a regular basis, but I will definitely try making more to try and normalize male friendships into my life. About the apps and websites- I usually...
by fresariver
Fri Jun 28, 2024 4:10 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I'm struggling with my sexuality
Replies: 3
Views: 15830

I'm struggling with my sexuality

Hello!! This is something that's bothered me for a few months now, however I do want to preface this by saying that I'll be talking about sexual assault, grooming, and abuse in this just in case anybody is uncomfortable with that! (Not in detail) So, I, 16F, realized I liked girls when I was 12 goin...