Yes that makes sense and I get it now, I had always just assumed that that 2% were just people that had absolutely no clue at all there was something wrong but had just ended up pregnant or something

So whenever it is said that condoms have a 98% efficacy rate on perfect use over a year, does that 2% have condom breakage despite perfect use or is it unknowingly so, and how are they able to even measure that it was perfectly used in the first place? Humans aren’t perfect I wouldn’t expect all the...

I will also refer her to this site to talk to you guys, thank you for the help, also pretty sure there is like a male birth control pill that’s being tested

Yeah, every time we’ve had intercourse we’ve used them, extra protection is always nice but definitely, doesn’t really bother me buying them, as a guy I think it’s good to take every step I can in preventing it, even though it sucks that all hormonal methods are female (for now). I’ll talk to her ab...

Yeah I’ll ask her if she’s interested in that, she might not be because she doesn’t want birth control to mess with her cross country running, but I’ll ask her and she’ll probably make her own account, thank you!

Thank you, yeah I did take a look at those articles and I found it very interesting, I always thought that the FAM method only considered counting your days, not the other stuff, she is stressed about it, I’m going to share this info with her, I’m sure she’s been “late” before; it just puts the pres...

Yeah, I think we were just worried because it says she’s late now, and she’s been experiencing pms symptoms but no period has came, I’m feeling better about it now, but she seems to be really stressed out, is it normal to still experience PMS symptoms the day or two before a period is expected and s...

Okay thank you, yeah I didn’t realize like 4-5 day variability was normal

Hey, your advice actually made both of us feel better a lot, one last question, despite that act not being a cause of risk, and us not doing any other acts during the month that could cause risk, her period is now 2 days later than the predicted date on Flo with pretty regular cycles, usually only v...

Thanks, yeah we are remaining abstinent from sex completely because both of us are too worried, this was just like a lapse of my judgment but thank you. Your guys advice is amazing

Just like asking again, I’m not at great risk even if she was ovulating right, like does that change anything

Okay thank you

I guess one question I do have is that if my fingers never actually entered the hole, just touched the outside, does that affect the process of fertilization, or does it make sperm unviable because they never go inside, not that that happened because it didn’t (like actually) I just like see differe...

Thank you, wasn’t very sure, y’all’s site is amazing I’m way more educated now and intercourse isn’t a scary thing for me anymore, thank you all

I ejaculated and like wiped it all off my hands with a paper towel, after about like 15 ish minutes i started performing manual sex on my girlfriend, if there was nothing on my hands there’s no risk of pregnancy right, thank u all

Thank you!!! She eats well but that’s probably a direct cause, I think for the last 2 months due to like her kind of rapidly increasing and decreasing her training it’s caused her cycle to prolong but I’m not 100% sure if that’s how it works, still obviously not a great feeling when she’s late yk, b...

She’s a cross country runner and just recently doubled her mileage, could that be a reason? I’m pretty sure she’s a little stressed too, due to her being in a strict household

Earlier this month me and my girlfriend had sex twice, both time with condom and I didn’t ejaculate at all, also we track her cycle and it was at the very beginning of a safe week like right after her period, she’s coming up to her period now and usually she gets pretty bad PMS like emotionally but ...

Okay thank you, yeah no I got nervous in the isle because like someone I knew was there so I just grabbed magnums and like they are definitely too big so ill look at sizing thank you so much

Okay thank you, so I shouldn’t be worried?

Me and my gf had intercourse for the first time yesterday, I noticed like a little bit through that the condom started slipping so I would pull it down, and I kept going for about a minute until I was like this isn’t a good idea and pulled out, condom was about halfway on with the tip still covered,...